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commentr/StutterMar 29, 2018
2 points

I have quite the vivid memories from years ago of me stuttering publicly with people reacting weird about it, so I'm not the person to ask for help in this case. What I can say is that, you're not a...

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commentr/StutterMar 29, 2018
2 points

Forget there opinion they have no valid input since they don't have a stutter you know first hand what your strengths and weaknesses are they should encourage you rather than make it seem like thinks ...

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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2018
5 points

Hey buddy, hang in there! I’m just gonna echo what others have said: I’m sorry for the way you are treated by people around you, but don’t take it personally if they are attacking/mistreating you bec...

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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2018
3 points

There are millions of people like us who live happy, fulfilling lives. If you can't afford speech therapy then try to find a stuttering support group. They have them all over the USA so perhaps they e...

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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2018
5 points

Hi there, I really hope you feel better soon. I've battled anxiety about my stutter for soooooo long. I went to college and wondered if I'd really ever find a job. Who would want someone who stutters ...

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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2018
7 points

That’s the way I felt at your age. Sort of the way I feel now. I’m 50. I like the way you expressed the desperation but also the sprinkling of LOLs like “Wtf why me it’s so bassackwards retarded it...

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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2018
10 points

Can understand you my friend. I am stammering since childhood. My advice would be that believe in yourself. There are lot of people who can't even speak. You will always be sad if you think of what ...

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postr/StutterMar 27, 2018
24 points

Thank god for this sub

Thank god for this sub Never knew a sub like this existed. Just looking at a few posts here make me feel like I’m not the only one with these problems!...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2018
1 points

They were neither strict or negative with my stammer. My family are very understanding of my stutter. ...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2018
5 points

Hey, so first of all. I suggest you lose that group of “friends” you have. I know feeling alone is scary but it’s better than being treated like that. I’m going to assume you’re probably in high schoo...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2018
1 points

I just wanna say I’m really sorry. But if I were in your shoes I would ditch those “friends” you have or if you want you can confront them. Just please know you’re not alone. If you need someone to ta...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2018
3 points

Those are really shit because you heard it a million times. I dont care if people make a joke about my stutter just make it funny...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2018
12 points

Man I’m so sorry to hear all of that. Those girls that rejected you aren’t even worth it and those kids are just ignorant. I also have a stutter and it’s been hard but we just gotta learn how to deal ...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2018
2 points

Good job. Best practice I got as a teenager was being a gopher for an auto shop. Had to order the guys’ coffee and muffins every morning. Used to sweat about it all the way to work. Sometimes would ju...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2018
1 points

I'm not in NYC but have hung out with that chapter lots. Expect a fun, welcoming, energetic, diverse group, where you're immediately welcomed into the family. Great people....

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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2018
2 points

It's very likely not the same that's happening when a non-stutterer listens to a stutterer, so don't worry, there's very likely nothing hypocritical about it (and if so, maybe only in relation to a ve...

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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2018
8 points

I used to feel anxious and nervous hearing people stutter. Then I joined the discord stuttering chat group and just listened during voice chat to others stuttering. After a few weeks, not anxious and ...

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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2018
2 points

I live with a severe stutterer and I know it is tough, but feeling down helps absolutely nothing. You are good enough and the toxic people are not worth your time or worry. There are people out ther...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2018
2 points

hey man, no problem, thanks for taking time out of your day to chat with me and share your feelings, too. i always enjoy reading your comments on the sub, and i think you have a great attitude about e...

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commentr/StutterMar 16, 2018
1 points

i hear ya, i would just give the dude a bit of a break, it sounds like he's been through a lot and he's trying to open up and share his story. the guy said he has low self-confidence and is feeling pr...

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