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commentr/StutterDec 3, 2017
5 points

It may work, but it may just be for a period a time. As soon as we get used to it, we're likely to experience the same stutter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2017
1 points

Yea I feel bad I had to tell people in the past I had a concussion and brain damage which is my excuse. It's unfortunate for the most part when people learn you stutter specially as an adult they thin...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterDec 2, 2017
1 points

How do you deal with your stuttering when talking on the phone?

How do you deal with your stuttering when talking on the phone? 19M Hey guys, so I have been stuttering all my life (with it picking up in the past couple years) and while I took therapy, feel more c...

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postr/StutterDec 2, 2017
2 points

It's frustrating, speech therapy?

It's frustrating, speech therapy? Hello, longtime lurker of these subs. I used to stutter as a kid but it went away in my teens. Moved to a new country and a new job and it came back a couple years in...

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Hiding & ConcealmentExperiential AssociationAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2017
7 points

Yes and no. I'm 42, been married for 14 years and dated a few women before marriage. Dating is certainly harder with a stutter, but I've had more relationships than some friends of mine who are comple...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2017
9 points

I'm a year younger than you with similar experiences. When I was 19 I started speech therapy at the clinic my university had after spending my teenager years not getting help. Currently doing it for t...

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commentr/StutterDec 1, 2017
1 points

Stuttering to me is an image issue...it's very nice when people are accepting of my stutter but I do not like how I look or sound when I stutter....

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commentr/StutterDec 1, 2017
1 points

Dopamine antagonists (aka anti psychotics) have shown to reduce stuttering. They come with a bunch of nasty side effects that I'm not willing to deal with....

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Harmful Med OutcomesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2017
1 points

hey, would you mind if i asked how old you are? i remember that people could be just brutal from like 6 until 15. And from then until 22-ish, I still got some pretty cruel responses. A lot of this ste...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 30, 2017
1 points

i hate being on the phone at work. even when it starts rings my heart drops. i work in a pretty open office where everyone can hear everyone's calls. everyone picks up the phone and says "hi, this is ...

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commentr/StutterNov 30, 2017
3 points

Surprisingly i don't have bad memories about "first day presentations". I dreaded more about "first time reading situations" in class. Sure some of them went not so well but nothing disastrous. One ...

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commentr/StutterNov 30, 2017
1 points

HATE it. It's the worst. Still sucks but now I cope with it by NOT thinking about it. At all. If it worry comes into my mind, I suppress it. I sing songs in my head, I distract myself with work. I jus...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterNov 29, 2017
12 points

I hate it when talking on the phone to a stranger and they think there is a bad connection

I hate it when talking on the phone to a stranger and they think there is a bad connection No, I’m not in a bad area, I’m not breaking up I have a stutter. Please don’t shoot me down by saying I’m bre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
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postr/StutterNov 24, 2017
4 points

Sick of Anxiety Stuttering getting in the way of my job

Sick of Anxiety Stuttering getting in the way of my job Well this is just a rant really, would like some tips from anyone but I feel like as long as I have anxiety I'll continue to have my stutter. I'...

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commentr/StutterNov 22, 2017
1 points

Yes! Especially about the ordering food thing. That's probably my worst situation to be in right now. All we can do is continue to get better and gain confidence....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterNov 22, 2017
13 points

How I 'cured' my stutter

How I 'cured' my stutter I have a pretty moderate stutter but it's quite clear that I have one when I am speaking to people - I will get occasional blocks and repetitions in each sentence. It may se...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
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commentr/StutterNov 22, 2017
2 points

One day you'll be in a busy cafe. It will be a hot summer's morning and the line will stretch out behind you. You'll almost be at the counter, and though it will be noisy, you'll be able to hear the p...

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Hiding & ConcealmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2017
2 points

I guess with me it's like a subconscious self learned habit. When I really don't have to be fluent I'm not. Peak stuttering for me is in a relaxed conversation with a small group, and it's slightly le...

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commentr/StutterNov 16, 2017
2 points

Same here. When I let my guard down - learned speech tools go out the window - with family or someone close - I stutter off the charts. Make me tense or put me in front of a group of ppl and I can pas...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSituational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2017
2 points

I’ve definitely heard of this before. The parents supposed that their kids could “perform” with the pressure but didn’t want to do the mental gymnastics it takes to be fluent when they’re home and r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking