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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
6 points

Act like yourself, and remember that most people in adult life DGAF. Maybe even make fun of yourself a bit. Emphasize your good qualities, and understand that women can be just as shy as you. Ask a...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationDating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
4 points

Still in high school here apperantly many girls have told me that they find it "cute" so ig that's a win...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
53 points

Girls used to approach me because they thought my stutter was cute. They thought it made me look vulnerable and 'adorable'. Years later when I went to my HS reunion I found out lots of other girls ha...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterApr 24, 2023
33 points

Stammering pride from the highest point in Thailand. Be bold in this identity, for you and the way you communicate holds value. This can be a shared journey reach out the community is there. #stammeringpride #stutteringawareness #stammeringawareness

Stammering pride from the highest point in Thailand. Be bold in this identity, for you and the way you communicate holds value. This can be a shared journey reach out the community is there. #stammeri...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
4 points

I say I appreciate it or appreciate you in basically all situations. It may sound awkward to some, but I feel great saying it fluently and it expresses my gratitude. Win in my book! Don’t focus on how...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
2 points

Amy, Please chat with me. I'm a female stutterer who stuttered my entire life and fully recovered at age of 70! I was married to a wonderful professional man for 53 years who adored me shutter and all...

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commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

You are focusing on the blocks and how stuttering is bad. Originally, I talked about "acceptance of fear and negative emotions". You turned it into "acceptance of stuttering". In my last post I aske...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
4 points

Consider this definition of acceptance: Acceptance: to willingly choose to allow the existence of stuttering without interference Are you truly letting yourself be in the stuttering moment? Do you ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
13 points

5 is the best. If you stop speaking, no stuttering! Problem solved, time to close this sub now....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

I talk about my experiences with different situations and my mindset on similar topics on my YouTube channel…. [J Talks: Embracing My Stutter](https://youtube.com/@JAYTALKS-et1mt)Let me know if it hel...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

Sounds like you’re having time.. We all get down on ourselves.. Me especially but it’s all perspective.. I go over a lot on what I have to deal with on my YouTube channel.. I hope it helps..[JTalks- E...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
6 points

Thank you so much for saying that. You’re definitely not ‘scum’ just because you can’t get your words out. It’s a weird dilemma isn’t it - communication is central to the human experience. From how ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
6 points

about the cat-fishing ... please never feel that you need to tell anyone about your stammering in advance. You are not a bad person, "just" because you have difficulties speaking. I've also been at th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

Thank you for your response. I really appreciate the perspective. You’re right, I think the acceptance of a lack of fluency will help me. My sibling said (after I asked for input) the other day that t...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
5 points

Let me offer a different perspective on this issue. Have you ever thought that your speech problems are partly caused by your perfectionistic tendencies? Have you actually really listed carefully to o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

Yes you can.. I go over everything I’ve learned and am still learning on my YouTube Channel-JTalks [Embrace Your Stutter](https://youtube.com/@JAYTALKS-et1mt).. Let me know what you think...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideResearch & Resources
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

I 100% agree. I was thinking about making a similar post the other day. The sad truth is, we’re probably not going to get rid of our stutter but we can definitely change our outlook. I was a rough p...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftSadness & HopelessnessAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2023
2 points

\>> So what I need to know from fellow stutterers is if it’s possible to have these things even if you stutter horribly.. Yes, I have my dream job, wonderful wife and kids despite my stutter. I...

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Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 21, 2023
16 points

“There is no fix for stuttering” doesn’t mean “there’s no hope”.

“There is no fix for stuttering” doesn’t mean “there’s no hope”. In fact, I think the opposite is true. I think realizing that we may stutter forever is the beginning of a new kind of hope. Let me e...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation+1 more
postr/StutterApr 21, 2023
64 points

You don’t need to be perfectly fluent to do things you want to do. You can stutter your way through things. People can wait for it

You don’t need to be perfectly fluent to do things you want to do. You can stutter your way through things. People can wait for it ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation