Thank you for your response. I really appreciate the perspective. You’re right, I think the acceptance of a lack of fluency will help me. My sibling said (after I asked for input) the other day that they think I’ve never accepted my stammer and that may be getting in the way of me managing it. And I think your point overlaps with this. I do think that my stammer has to with my inability to accept imperfections (“reasons I am unloveable”) or surrender. Can you relate to this?