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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
33 points

I mostly agree with you, but I mean, this is a stuttering support group so that's kinda what people are here for. Just to vent and get it out of our systems. I can't hide my stutter, and I can barely...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
4 points

This disability is incessant and more overt than others, which bodes poorly for us. On the bright side, having a stutter allows you to ascertain who’s a piece of shit and who’s not. A lot of peopl...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterAug 27, 2022
28 points

Stop blaming the stutter

Stop blaming the stutter Stuttering is a bit insidious. It's a disability. And it's not a disability. You don't see it. It's easily concealed. Its impact and weight are greater in the mind of the pers...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 27, 2022
25 points

im tired

im tired Im just tired of always being the silent one, when I tried to speak its never like "he has good opinion on this topic" or " i will talk with him about this more because, i like him" its alway...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
2 points

There is clearly a biological/genetic basis to stuttering. Stuttering is not caused by a virus, so a medical cure is not what you're really looking for. The motivation to change the way you speak an...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Genetic & Family FactorsIdentity & Self-PerceptionSeeking Therapy+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
1 points

I genuinely appreciate it. I’m in my 20’s so learning to love who I am can be a struggle but I’m working on it. How old are you?...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
4 points

Welp I’ll tell you that the road to where I am is hard and sad. A life full of regrets and missed opportunities because of being sensitive about my stuttering. So if this old man can give you some a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
2 points

I felt like this my entire life! I usually stay super quiet so people don’t have to hear me stutter, so I struggled with socializing or making friends. Eventually, I just sort of accepted that I was...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
1 points

In a pinch sure, but if you use it as a trick everytime you block it will generalize and gunk up your speech pattern even more than it already is. Just about all abnormal behaviors in our speech come ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
2 points

There are treatments but unfortunately no cure. And the treatments vary according to the individual. I wish I could have accepted my stutter better when I was younger, instead of avoidance, frustra...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 26, 2022
4 points

one day i want to wake up and forget what stuttering is...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2022
3 points

Hi! I am an SLP who specializes in stuttering and I am also a person who stutters. Stuttering is a neurophysical condition that is so variable. For some, they will stutter consistently their whole liv...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionSeverity & FluctuationStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2022
10 points

Congrats. It’s possible that despite your stutter, you still sounded like you knew your stuff. Speech fluency is entirely separate from the content you are transmitting....

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2022
2 points

We’ve got your back, OP. 38yo male here who has been stuttering his whole life. Feel free to come back and just report on how it’s going!...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2022
1 points

I think I would have been an introvert regardless, if you were forced into being an introvert due to stuttering, you were always going to feel that something is missing, and you wouldn't have felt con...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & BelongingAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2022
1 points

Can we explore cyclical nature here. Does introverted causes stuttering or stuttering is so much pain that you choose to be an introvert. I am a stutterer and can call me an introvert. But there is a ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessIdentity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterAug 24, 2022
5 points

Being an introvert makes stuttering so much easier to bear

Being an introvert makes stuttering so much easier to bear Most of the activities I do everyday involves little to no communication with people, My job? all I do is sitting in front of a screen combin...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2022
3 points

Your English is very good. I hope you go into high school letting people see your personality. Don't hide it and try to hide your stutter. Let them see you for who you are and if you stutter, it is ho...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2022
2 points

If your prospective employers are not properly trained SLPs, then they cannot possibly know why you are taking so long to answer questions and *appear* extra extra nervous. I just interviewed last ...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2022
1 points

I’ve studied various types of human behaviour analogy and something that comes to mind here is that people that like you will mirror you. Whether it’s the colour clothes you wear, how you walk, talk a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationIdentity & Self-Perception