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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2023
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Well…it’s actually been months. Sorry if i didn’t specify when it happened. I’ll try next year. Also the good thing is that i’ll have much time for my driver’s license and to improve my portfolio. Tha...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2023
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Personally, find that I need to prepare a bit but when I prepare excessively I become too focused on what I should say and makes it makes me more focused on my speech. I always try to engage in conver...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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Not everything works for everyone. If preparing too much (does sound contradictory) makes you crack under your own pressure then it doesn’t work for you. When you are preparing is it possible to focus...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Preparation & RehearsalAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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In your title you said "**The more I prepare, the possibility I will stutter**." I think that some people can't make preparations one day before the presentation (making them nervous on the presentat...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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For a stammerer it’s pretty normal to perform like this and it shows that you have to work on it. Give it some time, work on it, practice and practice....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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I will die on this podium: every job interview I have now, I tell them straight up I have a stutter. It’s not because I’m nervous, but I just can’t help it. Every job that I’ve brought it up in the in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2023
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I absolutely think reading aloud helps in some ways… confidence, speech mechanics, etc. Related, I used to hate preparing for class presentations, interviews, and stuff because it caused anxiety for t...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2023
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Yep, weird habits. If I feel like someone is going to introduce themselves to me, I will commandeer the conversation so that I can do so first, as I have a little script that lets me say my name with...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2023
1 points

Ive had this problem too. Try saying your name out loud alone hundreds of times. It has helped me. Anytime when i had to introduce myself, especially in school, was always difficult. Dont get discour...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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I always say it before job interviews or some other important event. Especially if they are in English, which is not my native language. All of the interviewers have always been receptive and told me ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalAuthenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2023
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Do intensive speech therapy for at least 3 years to protect you from relapse. Consider getting into theatre arts as a hobby, you can use the speech practice and getting into character...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityTherapy & Professional
Preparation & RehearsalRoles & PerformanceSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2023
1 points

I'll pretend that you're Dave. I would use "Hi, I'm Dave." You could use the "m" sound at the end of "I'm" to flow into your name. My name starts with B and I've found that works the best for me. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2023
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Here are some suggestions from someone with a moderate, very obvious stutter very used to corporate life and the interview process. 1) For anyone - You need to apply to more than 3 jobs to get some ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalAdvice RequestsEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2023
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Idk if it’s allowed on here because a while ago I weren’t even allowed to mention the name lol but it’s Lee Lovett’s program. So this one (of 12) he said to add a word infront of it. So for me I used ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2023
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Had this happen one too many times lol. I usually say “Hello my name is ____” usually gives me time and I don’t think about the name as much. Another technique I use is to say my nickname, I know it’s...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & NamesPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2023
1 points

Forty years for me. I don't let it define who I am, like I did when I was younger. I faced my fears of talking - Toastmasters really helped but it took 1-2 years of doing speeches to get comfortable ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftPreparation & Rehearsal+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2023
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Maybe empathy and a habit to anticipate situations in advance, while thinking about where the speech will be necessary, which helps to take into account many side things in advance...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringPreparation & Rehearsal
postr/StutterSep 1, 2023
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What should I do?

What should I do? This is my first year in community college and I have majority of college classes online but only have one in person at 10AM and the teacher expects us to be sociable and always want...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2023
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Most police will think you are on drugs when you talk to them with a stutter giving them more reason to search you and your car....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2023
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Yeah getting pulled by a cop is a situation every stutterer imagines and gets terrified about stuttering badly and going to jail. There are bunch is other scenarios like giving testimony to save your ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerPreparation & Rehearsal