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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
-5 points

Smh. Watch some bitch say some magical shit like "it all gets better" it wont especially not for me or you. I feel the exact same but I'm 14. Honestly if I was u I would find a job u can. Basically Fu...

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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2023
8 points

All my friends are very inclusive and my stuttering won’t kill the vibe but the issue is when we hang out it’s a very fast paced convo and because I haven’t talked a lot for most of my life it’s hard ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2023
1 points

Just speak to them as much as you want even if you stutter badly they're your friends and family who shouldn't care if you stutter, if you carry on with that stupid mindset of not talking much even to...

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commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2023
3 points

Why do you think the latter would make more sense? I don't stutter, but this is a question my husband had a real reckoning with himself over when he was in his early 20s, and he realized that of cours...

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commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2023
1 points

Just create a circle of close family and friends and just thrive within that circle, that's how I get by. Like what's the point of talking to random people who doesn't even know you or have any sort o...

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commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2023
2 points

For a second there I thought you meant darwinian evolution.. I certainly hope that's not where evolution leads us. But one would consider that being not able to talk would select us out of the gene ...

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postr/StutterFeb 10, 2023
15 points

My experience as a stutter

My experience as a stutter I had a speech impediment for as long as I can remember my life is miserable I didn’t have much of a childhood because of it children my age and adults never took me serious...

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commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2023
1 points

I agree with the lack of compassion towards people, I'm so trapped in my own head I only give a fuck about myself so that caused a social disconnect to what normal people do/feel....

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commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2023
6 points

Man, this is eerily similar to my situation. Same age, stuttered/mostly blocked since age 5. I’m fairly mild blocker, but when I do block it’s strong. I am mild because of years/decades of analysis ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2023
15 points

I feel the same way. When I’m in a group of people who can speak well I usually am very quiet and kind of shut down. I think you sound really good though and very fluent. I wouldn’t even be able to te...

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postr/StutterJan 31, 2023
7 points

Do stammers really exists?

Do stammers really exists? I haven't met anyone who stammers like me. I am alone on my way....

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Loneliness & IsolationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
1 points

Well sure. It's a common enough desire for people my age however so I stick to being alone. Not like many people want to be with a stutterer anyway so I'm all good....

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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2023
15 points

It's honestly what you want it to be. If you want to avoid people, that's on you. If you want to meet people regardless of your stutter and put yourself out there, also on you. Just know that I was ...

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commentr/StutterJan 28, 2023
3 points

Yes. I eventually stopped talking in front of people. Every time there were introductions or a group activity, i just left....

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postr/StutterJan 23, 2023
55 points

Just tired of this disability.

Just tired of this disability. Tired of having to silence myself all the time because I have this stupid fucking stutter. It's to the point where I have no friends, dont speak to my family (that I liv...

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postr/StutterJan 23, 2023
14 points

Anyone else just living like a robot?

Anyone else just living like a robot? Im broke as a joke. Dont even wanna work. Dont want to talk to people. I left my family my friends. I live in a car. I dont even care. Its like I have zero motiva...

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2023
1 points

Thanks. I’m not in the US but that’s good to know. I kind of more have blocks and pauses so my stuttering is the same as like mumbling or being awkward/ anti-social or unsure about what I want to say...

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Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2023
1 points

Yeah same. My dream would be living on a remote island with some girl I loved and just us. I can't do social settings anymore. It's just too much effort carefully crafting every sentence I say. And ev...

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2023
1 points

i relate to this shit so much bro, sometimes im even thinking "Wait, am i actually retarded?" Cause i act so fucking weird around people, all anxious and constantly fucking up my words. Im taking a BA...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2023
6 points

It’s 99% psychological for me. (Stutterer for 25 years) I can speak fluently out loud to myself and read fluently (mostly) out loud to myself. With others, I can’t do either. Therefore it’s in my hea...

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