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postr/StutterJan 1, 2024
1 points

Tips on making friends through bumble bff as a stutterer?

Tips on making friends through bumble bff as a stutterer? Or in person. I prefer to use apps though. Should I mention in my bio that I stutter or maybe once we start chatting? Is it even possible fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

This is why I hate stuttering in front of new people you never know how they’ll react and it sucks...

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Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2024
2 points

Here's how stuttering "positively" impacts my life: \- With any neurological difference or personal struggle, it makes you more attuned to others' disabilities and differences, and you become more aw...

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postr/StutterJan 1, 2024
1 points

How would I approach another stutterer as a pretty mild stutterer?

How would I approach another stutterer as a pretty mild stutterer? How would you want to be approached by someone that is a stutterer but doesn’t stutter much at all compared to others, but can still ...

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postr/StutterJan 1, 2024
1 points

Onion rings

Onion rings For the most part I can speak pretty clearly. I can use filler words to say what I want or even if I repeat myself I eventually get the word out but damn I’m fucking 27 it’s January 1st 20...

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postr/StutterJan 1, 2024
1 points

Dentist thought I was retarded

Dentist thought I was retarded Went to a dentist appointment today and immediately started stuttering for 30 seconds until I conveyed what I was saying. The receptionists face completely changed and w...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
3 points

Negatively. People avoid speaking to you in social settings and make fun behind your back or in your face. People assume you’re not intelligent (both adults and kids) throughout school, university an...

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commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
3 points

Comparatively less than real life because I know people behind screen don't know me. I prefer push to talk so even if I stutter I stopped talking. The feeling of anonymity give me less anxiety....

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Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

I am sure I have lost jobs or promotions because of it. But I also never wanted to be a manager - I just want to work and not deal with the politics - so that definitely has something to do with it b...

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Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

The only positives, while I still stuttered was this: learn how to deal with the feeling of being rejected better than my friends, who never stuttered. However, the feeling of rejection still stung a ...

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commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

The negatives are obvious and everyone knows about them. So here are the positives: 1) Patience, to listen to people more than you speak. 2) Confidence, of being rejected again and ag...

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Hope & MotivationValidation & EmpathyAnticipating Stuttering+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

I’ve had a stutter my whole life, well I’m not that old yet like I’m still in school however I feel like I’ve had enough bad experiences to Atleast share one here. I’m not sure about you guys but unti...

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commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

My stutter never had any truly positive impact. It gives shape to my personality more than I care to admit, which I think is the only good thing. I'm a good listener and I deeply appreciate romantic r...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

>*Everyone tells me it’s a confidence thing but I really highly doubt so since I stutter to even my teachers but I’m not scared of them and i am fairly confident* In a subset of PWS "confidence" c...

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commentr/StutterDec 31, 2023
1 points

Just because you’re tired of hearing it doesn’t make it any less true. You can be mad at a fact all you want but it won’t make the fact less true. The fact being that more confidence brings you all...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterDec 30, 2023
1 points

What’s your most embarrassing moment? (If you feel like sharing)

What’s your most embarrassing moment? (If you feel like sharing) Mine was back in 2015 and I had a job interview with target for a warehouse position that a desperately needed at the time and little d...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2023
1 points

Yeah, Lexapro helped a bit. I went into conversations without worrying about my stutter for the first time in years. I wasn't 100% fluent, but I was much better. However, I was only on it for 3 months...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2023
1 points

Was on lexapro for close to two years and it greatly reduced my anxiety. Having less anxiety means you care less about what others think and therefore you are less worried about your speech. I’m only...

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2023
1 points

You wouldn’t tell a person who has anxiety “just stop worrying bro”. I’m glad I haven’t heard this one before because I would spit in their face....

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commentr/StutterDec 30, 2023
1 points

Yep, that or "just stop caring & get over it!"...yeah right. They expect you to become a psycho that's completely in your own head all the time & ignore the fact that your most likely low key ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging