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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2016
2 points

My mom used to tell me that I was a very quiet person and that I need to communicate more with people. One day I wanted to express, and I stutter more than the normal (I don't know why), what my mothe...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2016
1 points

Same here, my family is most of what is keeping me alive. Otherwise I would have checked myself out a long time ago. Whoever said that no one is judging you for stuttering has to be a fucking moron. ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2016
1 points

I've missed out on a lot of things in life. I'm in the second half of my twenties and I feel like I haven't experienced anything. I've gone through so much material on stuttering acceptance but it has...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2016
1 points

I deem it to be impossible, that's why I have given up trying to be social. Too much work and not enough energy. I have embarrassing moments almost every day when I'm outside of the house and quite fr...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2016
3 points

Feel you.. No social skills here either. Im awkward as fuck too. Got mocked for my stutter for the first time today too. Life is not good at the moment....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterApr 21, 2016
3 points

How do you deal with others' ignorance when it comes to stuttering, especially when it comes from family?

How do you deal with others' ignorance when it comes to stuttering, especially when it comes from family? One thing that's always bothered me about stuttering is feeling ashamed for something I can't ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2016
1 points

Yeah, thats what I blame mostly for my speech. It made me self concious from a young age and screwed with my head...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2016
4 points

then you go to say "god damn i sound like a pirate" and u stutter on "god" now everyone in the room is looking at you like you are a moron so you just shut up and don't speak and become a social outca...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2016
1 points

I am in therapy with my University's CS&D clinic (the first one ever established in the US), so it's with graduate students training to be slp. We started with mindfulness and "light contacts." ...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyTherapy ExperiencesFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2016
1 points

Yeah, it's a self defeating cycle you've got for yourself. We stutterers do a lot of "mind reading", which is when we try to think what the other person must be thinking about us, our stuttering, how ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2016
1 points

Thanks for the response. I do perfectly well in school. I make high honor roll, take advanced classes, ect. I never have declined to do a presentation. I recently discovered that all schools have to h...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2016
2 points

They are the type of people who don't talk about it openly. I only feel bad and wrong when I talk about things like that with them. This is why I go on the internet and ask people who aren't my parent...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2016
1 points

We actually had an in-class discussion about the movie afterward. And of course I stuttered which was a huge embarrassment considering the character....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2016
1 points

I remember this movie! We had to watch it in my 8th grade history class and every time the stuttering character came on screen, I was dying of embarrassment since everyone in my class knew I had a stu...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2016
1 points

I hate when people say "What, did you forget your own name?!" Once at the airport security they asked my name because I didn't have a license at the time... :{ Needless to say, it was a terrible ex...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2016
1 points

I can't be a cashier, I can't report the news.. The list goes on. I've always seen myself as a monster of some sort and I still do. I know it's all in my head, but I still believe that I'm a disabled...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2016
1 points

I also have a hard time saying my name. I remember when I was a kid, an old man wondered what my name was and I replied with "I don't know" because I knew I was going to stutter on the starting letter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterApr 9, 2016
9 points

I had such an embarrassing day...

I had such an embarrassing day... Hello, I just recently discovered this sub and I'm posting here because I have a bad stutter problem and today it got so bad I didn't even tell anyone what had happen...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesRepetitions & ProlongationsShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2016
2 points

Or you say Y..................... Other person: Come on, spit it out! Are you shy? Me:............lvie I want to hit you. ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2016
4 points

I never used to have a problem with that method, then in college there was an unfortunate sort of awakening whereby I began to see (on a conscious level!) how it impacted certain situations, like watc...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment