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commentr/StutterApr 30, 2019
1 points

I’m 25 and stutter. Wassup! I’ve given up hiding it and work a full time job just stuttering all day, sometimes mildly and sometimes badly. Given up on it going away, lol...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterApr 30, 2019
17 points

Wanted to share my positive success with everyone here!

Wanted to share my positive success with everyone here! Speaking from my own experiences here, stuttering can be something really isolating. It makes me hesitant to talk to new people, hesitant to pla...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2019
2 points

Dude, I also struggle a lot to say my name haha. The other day I went to Starbucks and when the guy asked for my name I just couldn't say it. But then when I'm alone I have absolutely no problem. In m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 30, 2019
3 points

It could get better.

It could get better. As a child I had a terrible stutter, mostly blocking, it really held me back at school but I always tried to not let my stammer isolate me from my piers. So I always tried my best...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterApr 29, 2019
3 points

Stutterers of Reddit what advice can you give for specific words causing it?

Stutterers of Reddit what advice can you give for specific words causing it? As a kid I used to stutter a lot and it made me really insecure. I would replay conversations I've had while with friends o...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2019
1 points

Thanks for the response! Thats a good idea! When i was up there trying to relax/calm my mind, i just froze and every word that I tried to say literally was a block and I felt stupid. Ill try to preten...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2019
1 points

After many year of stress and embarrassment I realized that my stutter works as a some kind of a social filter. It repels not all but a good portion of unpleasant people. I never had too many friends ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2019
3 points

I am so sorry that kids were mean and bullied you. Your teachers should have put a stop to it. The kids who teased me (porky pig was a popular because I am also overweight) didn't really stop till I a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2019
3 points

I would totally 'pretend' to forget a word, like I'm blanking on it, even though it's really just because I know I'm gonna stutter. Sometimes I'll pretend to cough and sometimes that helps me get the ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterApr 27, 2019
3 points

I approached this girl who i liked at college...

I approached this girl who i liked at college... It went terrible... I walked up to her n asked about where she got her cool red jeans at n we talked a little bit... N well... It was a disaster... I s...

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Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2019
1 points

Exactly. Emily Blunt supposedly stutter, but in every interview I had watched you can't even see slightest evidence of stuttering. Same with Ed Sheeran....

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commentr/StutterApr 27, 2019
2 points

Gosh I have this same issue using voice dictation on my phone. I want to talk to my phone to write a text but it registers every stutter and screws up the whole sentence. It makes me feel ashamed to h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterApr 25, 2019
9 points

Tell me something great about yourself!

Tell me something great about yourself! Hey everyone, I realized one of the most common issues I've seen with fellow stutterers is a lack of self-confidence. This really affected me in the past, and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftHope & Motivation+2 more
postr/StutterApr 24, 2019
8 points

I went to another job interview today

I went to another job interview today Hello everyone! It's been a while since I've posted here. I made these two topics a little while back. [https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/aexqhj/have\_a\...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2019
2 points

Eh. I know they mean well, so I don’t count it against them, but still it can sometimes feel like I’m being talked down to. It really depends on the tone of voice though....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2019
4 points

A lot of people judge your intelligence level based on your appearance first of all before you even decide to speak. Not so much by just existing silently....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2019
2 points

I usually stay quiet and just feel really awkward. But this recently happened to me when I was ordering food. I ordered and the guy mocked me, but this time I told him I have a speech impediment and h...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2019
14 points

I usually just bear it, but if it’s like overt to a point where there just making fun of me I’ll say something to them. I work in retail and my job is talking to people about sales and whatever, I’ve ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentStigma & BullyingAdvice Offered
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2019
7 points

i have disclosed to probably around 500+ people now and most of the responses were - oh wow good on you, that's great, good job, you sound really good, etc, etc. People are rarely negative ( i think i...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 20, 2019
12 points

Is advertising your stutter before a viva acceptable?

Is advertising your stutter before a viva acceptable? I stutter wayyy less when if the person I'm taking to knows I stutter. Otherwise I end up trying my best to hide it which surprise surprise! just ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others