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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
3 points

So just a story that can help you. I was afraid of going to a job fair because of my stutter. When I reached there, I told every recruiter that I stutter and guess what, each and everyone of them took...

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
4 points

When you really internalize the fact that the stuttering is not your fault, it helps. Other things I look back and cringe on are usually bad choices that I made. Stuttering isn’t a choice so it doesn’...

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
3 points

Recommend putting yourself out there more and accepting that you’re gonna stutter in front of others. I work as a waitress and it was really bad at first but got better as I’ve done it more. Now whene...

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Hope & MotivationMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
2 points

Its all good. I think you should step out your comfort zone and put yourself out there. Set small goals for yourself with talking to who your interested in. I'll attach a thread I made about confiden...

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
8 points

F”*k them is right. They are focusing on other peoples issues to try escape their own. You be you and shine bright...

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Stigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
4 points

I recommend to not link self-esteem to your speech performance. I find it more effective to feel fear or tension, and speak anyway, I argue that this kind of '**confidence**' is more effective than 'n...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
2 points

I’m a stuttering 38m, and have been stuttering since the third grade. I’ve definitely struggled with dating over the years, but not because people had an issue with the stuttering. I’m the one that ha...

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Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
2 points

According to research *almost all people with a late onset stuttering* will fully outgrow or recover from stuttering within a couple of months or years. I argue that '*speech techniques*' will make yo...

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
3 points

non-stuttering male here; i believe your dating pool is definitely smaller than average but i wouldnt give up, theres people out there with the appropriate personality traits to handle 10 sec stutters...

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
5 points

Almost 40 and still stutter. I have good days and bad days but I don’t suffer. I’m not ashamed of it, openly talk about it and have even given keynotes on overcoming adversity. I’ve learned to be happ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
1 points

I did believe it would never end but at the age of 70, I became totally fluent. It was through psychotherapy to deal with an abusive childhood. Imagine one day just realizing you no longer stuttered a...

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commentr/StutterMar 22, 2023
2 points

You might find your stutter, and your attitude towards your own stutter, changing as the years roll by. Your confidence changes and your comfort within your own body changes which can dramatically imp...

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commentr/StutterMar 22, 2023
2 points

Try to be positive and keep working with your speech therapy. It really worked for me and I work in a job where I have to speak in meetings and cold call strangers. It gets better the more you get use...

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commentr/StutterMar 22, 2023
3 points

You'll be alot happier chasing your dream and seeing how you feel doing it then if you decide to not even try....

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commentr/StutterMar 22, 2023
17 points

42 yo female extremely outgoing and extrovert... stuttering sucks, but I'm funny, smart brainy, and damn good-looking 🤣. Walk thru life with your head high, try to push thru... lean into your quirks...

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commentr/StutterMar 22, 2023
3 points

I had a few but i don't blame them. it's a nervous laugh, almost a reflex. in fact I bet they cringe at themselves for doing that. just continue being confident and professional....

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postr/StutterMar 22, 2023
21 points

I wanted to continue!

I wanted to continue! So today in my class we had to present and I honestly was nervous, we all have been there. Heart is beating, stomach is tight ect. So I get called and I right off the back start ...

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Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2023
8 points

I hear you :( Personally, a sense of community is what I have looked for since childhood. At 22, I have found this support group and through it, other communities on instagram. To see stutter being t...

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postr/StutterMar 22, 2023
5 points

Tips to improve or outgrow stuttering as an adult (how to overcome limiting beliefs)

Tips to improve or outgrow stuttering as an adult (how to overcome limiting beliefs) This is my attempt to summarize [these](https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=unhelpful+beliefs) YT video. T...

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commentr/StutterMar 22, 2023
1 points

Of course, this is the basis of the course (Getting rid of stuttering). When we kill all the difficult letters, words and situations, we will be able to speak fluently without the need for technique...

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