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postr/StutterSep 27, 2019
32 points

I just had a breakdown

I just had a breakdown I'm so depressed..... I am ignored in group conversations, I've got fake friends, everyone straight up ignores me when I'm talking to them....

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postr/StutterSep 27, 2019
5 points

I've pretty much given up

I've pretty much given up 16m. Just moved to another new school, AGAIN! My stuttering has just gotten worse and worse, I don't even try to talk anymore, so people think I'm rude. I don't see the point...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2019
3 points

My stutter made me dread waking up everyday in all of my years of school. I was terrified to just say "here" when the teacher was doing the morning attendance. I have been made fun of by fellow studen...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
14 points

Nothing positive has come out of it. I hate it, it has definitively decreased my quality of life, and I can never get a break from it unless I'm extremely drunk. It's made me very depressed and flat o...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
1 points

I figured it was overstepping to tell people on their behalf, just wanted to ask for a second opinion. I didn't know it was legally considered a disability, that certainly makes how people respond mor...

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Stigma & BullyingEmployment & CareerAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
3 points

I used to hate it. Sometimes it really annoys me, but I get more annoyed at the people who treat me like dogshit when I stutter. Now I’m definitely more accepting of it and 100% more likely to call ou...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
5 points

As if my first response wasn’t long enough lol, here’s something else I’d like to add. I wouldn’t have a conversation with your team about the employee’s stutter for the reasons I already wrote about....

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
2 points

Thank you for sharing. That there are more left-handed people who stutter is a myth. Even if you stutter and are left-handed that does not make it empirically relevant. Some people own cats and stutte...

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Neurological & BrainMedicalization / NeurodiversityStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
11 points

I inmediatly lose respect for those who react negatively to my stutter. It's soul-crushing enough for me having to push through this shit every day and people who make me think less of me because they...

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Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterSep 23, 2019
1 points

How do you handle people making fun of your stutter?

How do you handle people making fun of your stutter? [deleted]...

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postr/StutterSep 23, 2019
15 points

What is your gut reaction when someone reacts negatively to your stutter and has that changed since your stutter first appeared?

What is your gut reaction when someone reacts negatively to your stutter and has that changed since your stutter first appeared? I am a grad student in Speech-Language Pathology and i’m currently taki...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
4 points

I stutter a lot and it all began when I was little, it made me suffer a lot of bullying and for 2 years I didn't talk at all, I was just so down with myself and I felt like shit (I already suffering f...

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postr/StutterSep 22, 2019
3 points

Is there a phobia for people who stutter?

Is there a phobia for people who stutter? I was out today and wound up talking to this cashier lady at check out, everytime I stuttered I noticed she'd like physically recoil and look panicked even af...

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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2019
2 points

Wow that’s inspiring to hear! I imagine high school kids can be far more ruthless than college students too. That’s good advice, that will certainly ease some tension in the room. I’m up for a challen...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeStigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2019
5 points

I'll typically change the word to something absurd to throw them off. Me: "I'm going to the st-..st-.." Person: "Store." Me: "Stutterers convention. Ass."...

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commentr/StutterSep 17, 2019
5 points

I knew I recognized that name, still has the same effect. You know, I know almost exactly how you feel. Im a graduate student. Last semester, I was in group that was horrible to me. The group got s...

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2019
3 points

Not that great. I sometimes make them make the mistake by saying “We’re so close, you’re finishing my s-s-s” They obviously say “Sentences” I reply with “Dinner.” They look at you weird but after hear...

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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2019
6 points

I like it. If everyone knows what I'm saying, why should I have to sit there struggling? Although when my dad just starts saying random words that begin with the same sound, that's annoying....

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2019
3 points

My family thought i was stuttering for attention when i was 5. Was really crushing for me back then. Then last year, my crush made fun of my stutter in front of a few friends and they joined. Couldnt ...

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commentr/StutterSep 15, 2019
5 points

Ugh, I'm so sorry. Siblings (and family in general) can be the worst. The most hurtful things said to me about my stutter have been from family members. Not just because the content of what they said ...

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