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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
7 points

>The most "funny" part is that after they read my message, I can actually speak to them pretty well, just because there is no anxiety about "if I can say it or not." Yea I've noticed this too. The an...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringListener Reactions
postr/StutterMar 6, 2024
1 points

Gotta go report a stolen document at the DMV

Gotta go report a stolen document at the DMV Just sitting outside panicking, dreading going inside. Fucks sake man, I just know I'm gonna freeze up. It's funny how god had to nerf me somehow. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

Lol...Any social interaction is nuanced and sometimes theres things between the lines. I don't think you can gauge that purely on a text message. Do you have social anxiety?...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

Here's the first step: Understand what causes anxiety and learn as much as you can about social anxiety. Why? Understanding something makes it familiar to your brain, and makes it less scary. If you'r...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

Go for it! I did summer research programs like that in college and they were always a great experience - you get a much better taste of what research is like working full time rather than the few hour...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

Selective mutism can be treated. I learn that from this video. https://m.youtube.com/watch?feature=shared&v=gmEJEfy5f50 This video also made me aware just how similar the experiences of both stutte...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

Can't even have a normal convo when I stutter, it's very frustrating. Im very jealous of the 99% people who don't stutter. But it is what it is. I don't even have much interactions with women because ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeDating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

26F here. I started to have a mild speech impediment during my young adulthood. I know for a lot of people it started as a child. Idk if I developed it because of trauma or from me getting older or an...

Speech & StutteringSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesQuality of LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

I don't know how to explain that thing but I think it is because of anxiety and low self esteem. Sometimes I feel that even a cancer is better than this because in cancer one can die in few months but...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
5 points

Having confidence helps but won’t truly solve the problem. You stutter because you think about the words you want to say. You think about them so much that you start getting anxious saying those words...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

Is confidence the main thing why I stutter

Is confidence the main thing why I stutter I have noticed one thing whenever I am not confident so I stutter a lot and I have seen it have affected me badly, how can I overcome this…...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
6 points

The “this is only for men” posts are kind of pointless, because it just excludes what is already such a minority. This isn’t a massive subreddit where an OP would have to sift through hundreds of comm...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
1 points

I am on same boat as you as I enjoy talking to people and want to talk to everyone but the fear of having a horrible stutter but at the same time I feel like my overthinking and mentally processing ev...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
17 points

I’m a woman who stutters, and I totally agree with this. I‘ve always felt as though my thoughts and opinions haven’t been taken as seriously as men for the simple fact that I am a woman, but of course...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
36 points

33F, single, moderate to sometimes severe stutter. Dating is hard for non-stutterers and seems almost impossible for us. The general consensus I’ve gotten from this sub regarding dating, from men to m...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
11 points

I’m a cisgendered woman who stutters, and I’ve noticed the same thing about this sub. I will say that dating apps generally seem to have more men on them than women, so it seems like the odds for men ...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 4, 2024
90 points

Anyone else feel like this sub excludes women?

Anyone else feel like this sub excludes women? I'm a woman who stutters and I struggle a lot with embarrassment and self esteem because of it. I would like to hear more from other women who share my s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
1 points

This is exactly how I think and feel, word for word. My stutter is caused by social anxiety and is quite severe at times. But I can be completely fluent speaking to my husband because I’m 100% comfort...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
5 points

It's neutral to good, depending on your personal feelings. Doesn't need to be good or bad, but I'd say it's preferable to the stress of worrying about their opinions....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
2 points

Is the focus of attention what is making your stutter. When you are "improvising" your attention is on the activity you are doing or the goal you are trying to achieve. You don´t focus on yourself bu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating Stuttering