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commentr/StutterMay 28, 2016
2 points

I have thought about this too. My guess is that it has to do with rhythm just like you said. When i speak spontaneously i feel like i have no control over the speed of my speech, no matter how much i ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2016
6 points

Very well-written! I could see so much of my own story in yours. Thanks for sharing. > The actual incidence of it is bad enough, but the dread it creates in you is far worse. That is something I...

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commentr/StutterMay 24, 2016
3 points

Welcome to the hell is more like it. I take it your impediment is blocks like mine. When I was a kid and teen I had a repetitive stammer and in my adulthood it evolved into this. If I get stuck I have...

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commentr/StutterMay 23, 2016
1 points

I've been on both ends of the interview process - it's no different. Some people find it easier if they just tell the interviewer upfront that they stutter and don't mind repeating themselves if nece...

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Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2016
1 points

That's a neat little write-up. :) I wonder if there's been studies done as to the "mindset" effect on a stuttering situation. Like, if some of the challenge can be circumvented by simply training to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2016
2 points

One big tip: Whenever you are thinking your thoughts to yourself in your mind... mulling things over... make certain that the word order is 100% correct. I think that's the key. In my opinion, visual...

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Overthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2016
1 points

This is great news, especially coming from someone in my field. If you ever had to do a technical interview before, how was that process like with a stutter? Also, how is the atmosphere of a softwar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2016
1 points

How old are you? I'm 33 and I grew up stuttering pretty severely and conditioned myself with some pretty hardcore anxiety - social anxiety is probably the worst part of it. It got so bad at one poin...

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commentr/StutterMay 19, 2016
3 points

I understand exactly what you're going through as I have the same problem. But before you think any further about how bad your life is look at the countless fluent people who are uneducated and stuck ...

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commentr/StutterMay 19, 2016
1 points

I was at a job interview yesterday, where every time I was trying to get a point across and was hampered by my stutter, I could feel the flow sort of slipping away. It's strenuous....

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commentr/StutterMay 19, 2016
4 points

Everything. As someone who also has a severe block stutter, I'm the last person who is going to tell you it doesn't affect my life. I don't go a day without thinking about when I am going to block or ...

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commentr/StutterMay 19, 2016
6 points

I am the same. If I am asked to repeat an order or directions or anything....I am screwed. It is like I over-think it the second time. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceParent & Caregiver
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringHome Support
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2016
5 points

Sorry to hear that you are struggling like this - I have a stutter as well, and it definitely makes things difficult. I feel that career-wise I am limited because I can't speak well in front of others...

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commentr/StutterMay 19, 2016
2 points

Stuttering on purpose is a common technique used in many methods throughout the world. Every speech therapist I've been to has mentioned it. Rather than an experiment it's just a common method of spea...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2016
7 points

I sometimes explain it smoothly the first time but then they ask to repeat. Oh boy, it all goes down the hill from there. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceParent & Caregiver
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringHome Support
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2016
2 points

Thanks for the tip. A lot of the time I think it's so easy to implement, like just take a breath and talk slowly and I'll see results right away, but this speech pattern I've used has been ingrained i...

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commentr/StutterMay 19, 2016
1 points

I've had the same problem when I'm confronted by an authority figure. There's a lot of nervousness that can kick in when I sort of feel I'm being asked to defend myself, even though usually they're ju...

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commentr/StutterMay 18, 2016
1 points

You could try coming up with the word order of the first sentence you're going to speak when you up and chat someone up. That might give you the confidence to overcome this initial block. Mild stutter...

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Preparation & RehearsalOverthinking & MonitoringMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2016
2 points

I'd say it defitnely is not helpful, no. When you notice you have these thoughts, just briefly acknowledge them and they should disappear. ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2016
1 points

I think the biggest thing that can happen to us is we start beating up our own selves, making the problem worse. I used to notice, even before I spoke, I would BELIEVE that I would stutter. For years,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy