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postr/StutterJul 24, 2018
2 points

After my first job my communication skills got pretty affected...

After my first job my communication skills got pretty affected... Hello everyone. I'm Franz. I'm 23 from the philippines. I'm just new to this sub and i just wanna share my situation. I've been having...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEnergy & Biological Rhythms+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2018
3 points

I recently got mocked in front of my friends and family at a restraunt ...it was so embarrassing and haven’t had anyone do that to me. Especially in front of everyone. I felt like such a joke. I am so...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2018
15 points

I’ve met a few people who laughed at my stutter. They got used to it though and the laughing went away. I don’t blame you, though. I have a blocking stutter, so I just get stuck on sounds and they w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2018
2 points

I wanna get out of my comfort zone, but I just can't. I feel like I'm worthless, that people around me would be better off if I didn't have my stutter. I know I need to put myself out there, but I can...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2018
1 points

I don’t know if it’s just me but I always cry when I talk about my speech. I’ve had a lot of luck in my childhood and so on, but recently it’s been hard to deal with it as an adult. Why do I cry every...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 16, 2018
7 points

Embarrassed to talk to people

Embarrassed to talk to people I’m just wondering is it only me who feels completely intimidated at family dinners and never talks or speaks up as what I want to say I can’t. None of my friends have a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2018
1 points

Agreed. It's just little things that add up. I think getting cut off built the thought in my head that what I wanted to say wasn't important enough, and that people didn't want to hear me. I guess tha...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2018
2 points

Before the age of 16, I could pronounce my name every single time, but I stuttered on other words. But after that idk what happened. I'm 22 now. In last 6 years, I never pronounced my name without stu...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2018
16 points

Fuck I just imagined this happening to me and having one of my 'stutter, but with bonus excess spit spray' moments, which is going to haunt me on random nights at 3am as I lay in bed, as you do, as yo...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 8, 2018
15 points

Having people "lean in" to hear you

Having people "lean in" to hear you I'd gone to a party last night, I was stuttering moderately/severely for the most part, but being drunk definitely helped quite a bit. At one point in the night, I...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2018
1 points

Don't worry about the delayed response. I recently found that I feel some kind of shame or guilt regarding myself stuttering, so I sometimes have trouble saying it to people even when I just stuttered...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2018
1 points

it's so awkward to stutter though man she'll think i'm stupid :(...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2018
1 points

In general... While I stutter or get embarrassed, I tend to hide it. But it all adds up and if someday ppl make fun of me especially in WhatsApp group! I straight up vent out the steam. And peopl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2018
2 points

That’s a feeling I’m all too familiar with! However, I’ve tried to be less sensitive to my own stutter. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been blocked on a word, especially my name. It usually resu...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideFluency Techniques
postr/StutterJul 3, 2018
7 points

Feel like shit :/

Feel like shit :/ Had to book an appointment yesterday and the lady asks me where i was born and the place i was born is so hard to say I stuttered so hard and just said any random place... Now I look...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2018
8 points

I know it’s just me being selfish and having a pity party but every time someone complains about doing that in my head I’m like “what could you possibly be afraid of you don’t stutter”...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJun 29, 2018
77 points

When you about to roast someone and that stutter kicks in

When you about to roast someone and that stutter kicks in ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2018
14 points

I'm totally behind this ...but I can see lots of the sub disagreeing, especially about the last paragraph, lol. I was always defeated by the stutter, depressed beyond belief. I've been trying to appl...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2018
1 points

I've been thinking about that. Main changes since then was school got out and I got in a new relationship. Pretty sure it's not the relationship. Maybe not being around people and talking to them all ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2018
2 points

Don't do that stuff. And yeah mostly likely you're feeling more self conscious about your stutter. Wonder what's changed they you didn't feel as self conscious about it before but you do now. ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment