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commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
8 points

God I use to hate that back in school, dreading when my name was called for register and I had to say " yes sir/miss". I was always so embarrassed... can't give you any tips, sorry, it's just a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
3 points

Me too! I once tried to wish that I was born mute instead of being able to barely speak. There’s an urge that I want to express myself and recite to class, but I can’t do it. Speaking is basically hum...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
2 points

Thank you for your comment; it is well appreciated! Your right, I mostly avoid situations where I will go talk to others that I think will initiate my stutter. But then, I try to talk to others, like ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
1 points

Thank you for your comment; it is well appreciated! Your right, I mostly avoid situations where I will go talk to others that I think will initiate my stutter. But then, I try to talk to others, like ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
3 points

You have anxiety issues, brother. You dont suffer from autism and similar. He can say whatever he wants, if you know yourself the best, then even the best doctor in the world cannot tell you that you ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
5 points

The thing is that the therapist said i have that and i know that im not in the spectrum, i just suffer socialicing but i have common sense, humor and all of that stuff and i enjoy going out and passin...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
3 points

Same here, But i am always trying to overcome it, I can speak 4 languages. And in some i stutter more and in some i stutter less. Then i cracked the code, Its what your brain thinks, How you should s...

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commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
2 points

Same situation here , I also used to get 80-90% in my academics but if i were not a stutter i would have gotten far better grades. But you are wrong here, You try to avoid interaction with your fami...

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postr/StutterApr 28, 2024
3 points

July 27th and 28th, 2023—276 and 277 days from now since I wrote this text.

July 27th and 28th, 2023—276 and 277 days from now since I wrote this text. July 27th: Hi! First of all, I am an introverted student, and it was our late-summer vacation. I just finished house chores,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 28, 2024
9 points

I think I have been misdiagnosed

I think I have been misdiagnosed I have been diagnosed on the autism spectrum but I don't agree. The reason is because I have a hard time socializing because of my stutter, because of the fear of bein...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
1 points

Best friend or not. If it's a true friend they won't mind it and you shouldnt be overthinking something like this because it's okay...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
2 points

I feel the same way. I'm always anxious about facing life. Going out or doing things or even picturing myself landing a job feels so stressful due to my blocks. I hate having to live this way because ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2024
6 points

Have you tried focusing on the second syllable of the word? For me, its words starting with D and with more than 3 syllables like for example "development" . The trick I use is instead of focusing on ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2024
11 points

I’ve faced a similar situation; I used to just change up the wording so that way I could to make it come out smoother; but now I just slow down my speech to get it out. The slowing down helps but some...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 27, 2024
54 points

I feel frustrated that I have to work so hard to overcome something that 99% of people don't deal with

I feel frustrated that I have to work so hard to overcome something that 99% of people don't deal with I hate to sound overdramatic and feel bad for myself lol, but does anyone else get how I feel?! I...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
postr/StutterApr 27, 2024
12 points

I have a problem with one particular word even tho i know i can say it

I have a problem with one particular word even tho i know i can say it My girlfriend lives in a gated community, so the security guard asks me her address everytime i visit her Her address starts wi...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2024
1 points

It sounds like an anxiety dump more than actual stuttering fixing. I get caught a lot because I try to speak without air in my lungs which causes me to lock up and then I start making weird sounds and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2024
8 points

I think, feared letters (in your case, the letters t, p and k) are a consequence of experiencing failure on those sounds. The point I'm trying to make is: failure in itself, is not the problem. Babies...

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postr/StutterApr 26, 2024
11 points

Big presentation soon

Big presentation soon So yeah I have a presentation this Tuesday , it’s supposed to be 20 mins long and Ik I’ll be nervous so I’ll obviously stutter. Anyone have any tips at all to help or what works ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & RehearsalFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2024
6 points

Feel the exact same way. Do I have social anxiety because I stutter or do I have a stutter because i have social anxiety?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment