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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
2 points

I mean having a twinbrother every argument/discussion that I am winning (which is quite usual, since I am better versed in arguments surrounding social-economic problems) results in him going like “O-...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
10 points

Good point. I’ve only ever had my stutter weaponized against me by cousins and siblings, but in a work place it definitely took me by surprise....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
9 points

Yeah man go apply for that position, it seems like your managers really like you if they told you that. And with your coworker, I agree with what the other OP said, she’s definitely using a defense me...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
19 points

It seems like a self defense mechanism of hers. She wants the position and reacted that way to defend herself/her claim to the manager position. If she was your friend and didn’t work at the store, he...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJul 10, 2020
51 points

Has anyone ever tried to use your stutter against you?

Has anyone ever tried to use your stutter against you? I work at a department store (have only been here for about 2.5 months now) and the managers in my department encouraged me to apply for a manage...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

funnily I never got bullied in school. but I was never accepted. the students and the teachers just pretended that I didn't exist. that really helped my social skills lol. and people wonder y I'm so a...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
1 points

this happened with me too. I was at a family function and this cousin of mine went around imitating my stutter. just like you, no1 stood up for me. I didnt do it for myself either....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

The worst comment I’ve had is that someone thought I was on drugs when I told them my name. They were asking what I took, if I’m okay, I told them I’m not on anything and they laughed and walked away...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

Tw: beatings I'll use a throwaway. Got bullied at primary school from age 7-12. It started because I had a stutter. Teachers didn't react but they knew. We had 1 teacher per year (September to the ...

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Stigma & BullyingTrauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

I've had this experience. When I run into someone I haven't seen in years on a good day where I'm not stuttering as much sometimes they'll say "you don't stutter anymore! it used to be so cute when yo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJul 9, 2020
4 points

Does anybody else feel super marginalized at work?

Does anybody else feel super marginalized at work? My stutter has been a strike against me with pretty much every employer. The worst thing is that unlike racial or gender bias, it’s much less recog...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
3 points

My niece did this to me during a family vacation once. What hurt most is that I had to defend myself because no one spoke up for me. When people make fun of your stutter, it is due to sheer ignorance....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

Some one I worked with once said “don’t worry, you’ll stutter you way to success some day” what a dick...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJul 9, 2020
6 points

Felt empowered at work today

Felt empowered at work today Hi! This is my first post to this sub (i think), and I had a great day at work today!! Most people think that stutterers are not intelligent as most of you would know and ...

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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
5 points

That's awful! I am so sorry. I wish people were a little more sensitive and understanding of what others are going through. And I swear most teachers are really useless....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
3 points

Yeah, it definitely hurts more when it comes from a family member. She doesn't do it anymore but then again I don't see her much either lol but I've learned to ignore people. I am sorry that happened ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
6 points

I'm so sorry, it happened to me only twice (my dad and my sister) and I felt so bad and 'betrayed'. I can't even imagine how being mocked is, especially by someone who is supposed to love and help...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
14 points

Bullied a lot in high school, get laughed at regularly by strangers when I have a hard time saying my name. But the worst time, was a couple years ago at a new job where I had to answer the phone. One...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
5 points

When I was about 8, the teacher made us each read a sentence and went around the class, which to most stammers, is absolute torture, the quick time you have to count everyone in front of you and find ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
16 points

I feel you. Public shame works wonders for that tho, "Wow, do you really laught at people with disabilities? That's fucked up". That should end her laught pretty quickly....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying