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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
2 points

My mom said to my dad saying that I know how my child stutterers, how he suffers every day, even a simple conversation is hard for him.... It feels painful, I was in tears almost but I don't want the...

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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
2 points

All the time, man. It's like you suddenly decide to pipe up, stutter over yourself then feel depressed immediately afterwards because you could've NOT sounded like a retard but ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯ it's so fr...

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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
1 points

I still get flashbacks to bad stutters from years ago, especially at night when I'm in bed (it usually takes me a few hours to get to sleep so I have plenty of time to think). I still dwell on a speci...

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Experiential AssociationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
1 points

Sounds like she's projecting. It's a pretty unhealthy and I'm sorry she's putting her own beliefs and fears about stuttering on to you. I would go with her to an NSA support group meeting if you have...

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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
4 points

Yes, and then I have flashbacks about that conversation during my day like some sort of PTSD. I dwell on it, which is something that I'm trying to stop. Self confidence about your stutter is the cause...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
5 points

Depends on whether I stutter. When I am fluent- I feel this feeling of triumph. When speak and stutter badly, it gnaws at me for days sometimes. Just this feeling of a knot in my stomach for days. U...

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Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
3 points

Just regretting what I said in the conversation, over analysing it or wishing that I hadn't joined in and just kept quiet. Like what I said was stupid or because I stuttered it ruined the conversation...

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Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
3 points

Yes. It makes me feel like I just make the conversation awkward for no reason, and that the other people in the conversation would have preferred if I'd stayed quiet. Then I proceed to think about tha...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 18, 2019
63 points

Does anyone get feelings of regret after you've spoken? Like you shouldn't of said anything.

Does anyone get feelings of regret after you've spoken? Like you shouldn't of said anything. I might speak up and join in on a conversation, stutter in that conversation or sometimes not at all but I ...

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commentr/StutterJul 18, 2019
3 points

I am a woman I'm 30's and the anxiety is slowly killing me. I have a mild stutter with moderate flareups that last for a few months at times and they are always a surprise. But they disappear before ...

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2019
3 points

I think your heart is in the right place, but it would ultimately be a hindrance for him. If you can just basically turn off your voice, then you aren't as motivated to seek fluency strategies. Not to...

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postr/StutterJul 14, 2019
11 points

Would I be the asshole if I suggested a kid with a stutter learned sign language?

Would I be the asshole if I suggested a kid with a stutter learned sign language? Hey all, thanks for reading. I recently met a kid (teenager to be exact) who has an extremely bad stutter. He was alo...

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commentr/StutterJul 13, 2019
1 points

My take on your situation is that because of your stutter you have matured into a healthy empathetic individual. The consequence of which had also allowed others to take advantage of that. It’s a diff...

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commentr/StutterJul 13, 2019
3 points

i don't really got bullied but i have got a heck of a lot embarrassing situations, so many that i even forget most of them haha...

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commentr/StutterJul 12, 2019
2 points

The advice here is all solid and I don't have much to add. I want to ask you a question though: why do you think a stutter is cute? I have heard this before and I cannot understand why anyone would fi...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2019
1 points

It is really nice asking this! If it comes up, I would bring it up how you did not notice his sutter on the first date. I am about to start dating and this is one of the things I am very self consciou...

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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2019
5 points

Please don't do this, I absolutely hate it when someone says my stutter is "cute". Sure someone might like it but probably better not to risk it...

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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2019
4 points

I think it affects me in ways that someone without a stutter wouldn’t even consider - for example, feeling like a complete idiot after stuttering when I try and make an off-handed comment (even if the...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2019
5 points

I think personally the worst thing is when I’m trying to say something in class or in front of people and I can’t even make a sound or say anything and I just feel so stupid. People are generally okay...

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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2019
2 points

Back when it was really bad (It is for the most part gone now). I would absolutely avoid talking to people. There were also other much more serious reasons why people did not want to hang out due to m...

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