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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2024
2 points

I just act like I forgot the word and make a facial expression like I’m trying to remember it and usually people fall for it or just think you may not be that bright forgetting certain words but it’s ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2024
2 points

I know it before I even talk, people think I speak thoughtfully but I’m actually just struggling inside word swapping on the spot lol....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2024
5 points

Youre def right but i stutter even when im talking to myself so that throws it off.....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionExperiential Association
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2024
2 points

Exactly. Was the same with me. And that day, I figured it out, that stutter is not a disease. From that point forward, i tried to fixed it, and in one way i succeded. One thing helped me tremendous, a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2024
1 points

Allot of factors, are based on confidence. But for me, it was easier to battle stutter, than confidence. Because once I was able to talk better, I got confident. IYou can try out my ebook, I can send ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2024
3 points

There is another thing Charles Van Ripper said that blocking is learning behaviour in order to unlearn we need to cancel our block but speaking that word again without any struggle.It works immensly b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2024
2 points

I don't think it affects my actual stuttering, but it does make me more comfortable. If I am on a call, the caller now knows I am not breaking up. If I make a weird face, they know I am not having a s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2024
4 points

Read somewhere and it fits perfectly Stuttering is something we do in order to avoid stuttering...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2024
1 points

Great reply. See my new [comment here](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/1blaf83/comment/kw6fxze/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button). I a...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2024
1 points

Exactly! Great comment! If we think we are going to stutter (as you pointed out), the more likely we will actually stutter. And thus, what most of us then aim for is to rely on the expectation to "red...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2024
2 points

Nope. It makes it worse for me. I find I stutter less around people who don't know I stutter. Once they find out, that's when it gets bad. For example, my ex didn't even know I stuttered for the first...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2024
2 points

> In a way, it’s become muscle memory. But I do feel like stuttering is also cognitive and linked to confidence. It most certainly ​ > We can change bad habits. So if can somehow break thes...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2024
2 points

I was coming in here to strongly disagree with the title but if you change "stuttering" to "avoidance" I think you have a pretty good post (minus the breathing stuff).  You are correct, if you chang...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMar 22, 2024
9 points

The problem of anticipation with blocks

The problem of anticipation with blocks A long time ago, I developed the habit of anticipating my blocks so that I can plan around them or substitute words. I'm sure many of you have done the same. Ho...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMar 22, 2024
3 points

Viewing stuttering as a set of bad habits - thoughts?

Viewing stuttering as a set of bad habits - thoughts? I just had a thought that stuttering is possibly just habits? It’s a habit that before we speak, we analyse for words we may stutter on. It’s a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 22, 2024
5 points

I guess u can call this a vent lol

I guess u can call this a vent lol I've kind of starting stammering since about October last year out of no where. To be honest it can either be good or bad but boy it affects my life. I've dealt with...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2024
1 points

It's called modeling obviously---did you take that michael williams course!!!! I took it did not help me....a stuttering trying to mimic someone else won't make one fluent---least in my experience......

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
postr/StutterMar 21, 2024
3 points

Have you noticed that you can sometimes study for a long time, and, if you change your expectations you cannot do that anymore? If we have also associated such expectations with stuttering, what can we do to stop relying on such expectations?

Have you noticed that you can sometimes study for a long time, and, if you change your expectations you cannot do that anymore? If we have also associated such expectations with stuttering, what can w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2024
3 points

I had a professor NEVER call on me again after she heard my stutter 😭 like she heard it a few times when I would answer questions in class (I like to participate in class) but then she knew to not ca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2024
4 points

I remember once being brave and raising my hand to try and audition for a role in a play. My teacher saw me raise my hand gave me the side eye from her desk and gave the smallest shakes of her head. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment