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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2017
1 points

I think you are mixing up multiple things. First and foremost, can you live a happy and fulfilling life being a stutter? YES. People learn to live with their disability and still enjoy life. Can you...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2017
1 points

If that makes you happy then great. I wish I could do that. But for me? Nope. I don't think I ever can...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2017
1 points

You're dead wrong. I've been where you are. Hopeless of any chance of leading a normal life or of being even remotely happy. The only person reducing your worth is you. Quit blaming your stutter &am...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJan 15, 2017
10 points

Convince me this is not a lower standard of living.

Convince me this is not a lower standard of living. After my last post on here I'm still not convinced that it's all in my head. So far I think it's quite the opposite. I think there is a significa...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2017
1 points

You can, but it's on you, not anyone else. If you really want to help yourself then you will. If not, then you'll just continue bitching on the internet (& in person I would imagine) about how awf...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2017
6 points

Agreed with Schwarze, not dumb nor would I say I don't experience success. As a precursor to this unsolicited advice, I don't have any medical/professional experience with depression. That being sai...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJan 10, 2017
1 points

Help for university!

Help for university! Hello guys. I'm new to this group. I have speech impediment since I was 4 or 5 I don't remember for sure. Now I'm 20. Two years ago I went to study Business and Logistics. I didn'...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2017
2 points

I feel absolutely zero pressure. I just think that it is a complete waste of time to try to date. The juice just isn't worth the squeeze. ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJan 3, 2017
12 points

One of my biggest issues as a teenager...

One of my biggest issues as a teenager... When I was younger I felt I had no control over my speaking. No control whatsoever! I would try and talk to people and would leave feeling defeated. I would a...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2016
5 points

Not the same kind of pain, I'd say. But if you think you're gaining (something) after each time you stutter, I suppose the interpretation might work for you. :)...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2016
1 points

In my experience at least, I've never met a stutterer that didn't have ANY degree of control over it. The common notion is that we all have our bad days & our good days. Almost everyone I've encou...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2016
2 points

I'm at the airport and have only had 90 mins sleep. Apologies if my answer is poorly explained. I highly doubt the change would have happened by itself. My worst times were when I was passive about ...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2016
2 points

I agree. You have no idea what you'll be doing in a few years. I believe that the only person holding you back is you 99% of the time....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2016
3 points

But look, you are just one data point. Lots of other people work equally hard and continue to stutter. How do you know that your hard work was the cause of the change in your speech? Maybe the change ...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2016
6 points

I absolutely agree, and I'm glad you asked that question, because it leads into an important issue amongst a lot of stutterers. I spent four (mostly) wonderful years with my crush from early middle s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2016
6 points

I think stutterers are better at being loners than other people. It takes alot for me to be lonely, I'm never bored. I generally like time to myself. But there's still that emptiness that comes wit...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & IsolationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2016
1 points

I came here for the same reason, and just submitted my first post yesterday! It's helpful for me to know I'm not alone and can connect with others who have had very similar experiences. I think your...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterDec 4, 2016
8 points

I'm starting to become bitter about my stutter.

I'm starting to become bitter about my stutter. Hey there everyone, My name's Kevin and I've been a lifelong stutterer. Growing up I never really took issue with my stutter because it felt more covert...

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2016
1 points

In college, thought I made friends but they stopped inviting me to do stuff. Apparently they were too busy. It's hard b/c people don't understand my anxiety and awkwardness and I have trouble fittin...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2016
3 points

I masturbate furiously until the self-loathing consumes me and then I just sit in a corner while listening to some slow piano music eventually I'll feel a tiny bit better....

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency