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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
5 points

Imo it's important to rank yourself with the loser scale, i think i'm a slighty above average loser. The only thing going for me is my job where i'm respected everything else is 0...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
7 points

I think it’s more or less they’re not trying to brag but to show that a bad situation is temporary. Life is hard for everyone to some extent but don’t let that rule it man. You’re only 40 years youn...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
4 points

Of course you're not the only one. You're one of many, perhaps even one of the majority. You feel like the only one on this subreddit because forums like this tend to prop up success stories, and unde...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
8 points

Well that's the main reason i don't write here, besides my bad english (i'm from spain). I'm a loser too, my life is sad and don't have any good advice to stutters. 40 years, no friends, live alone, v...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
1 points

I am M26. I am still single. I had many crush in my college life/school life and also now in my work life. I have never been able to talk with them because I stutter a lot. Talking to girls is even mo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterJul 10, 2023
1 points

What are things about stuttering that are rarely discussed?

What are things about stuttering that are rarely discussed? I’m prompted to ask this after John Hendrickson’s excellent book Life on Delay, which delves into a lot of inner thoughts and feelings that ...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 10, 2023
23 points

Found my people 😭😭 (you guys, this subreddit)

Found my people 😭😭 (you guys, this subreddit) Ive been struggling all my life with words that start with vowels, and occasionally/sometimes/rarely words starting with m and p (I guess!) I can't even...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
1 points

Exactly same here. I don't shutter at all when I sing. I used to sing during functions in the past. But when I talk to strangers and family members when I need to ask something I stutter or when I ask...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
4 points

Self esteem translates itself in the severity of stuttering. If you think you're a loser, you'll talk without confidence....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
2 points

Thank you and I've had it forever but I'm starting to realize that it's not a common thing. I thought it just went hand in hand with stuttering but it seems it's not the case...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
14 points

Oh, I’m so sorry you’ve given up on life. I’m a 76 year old F who managed to have a successful, happy life. It wouldn’t have been so happy had I not married a professional man. I was saved from having...

Community & SupportMeds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
1 points

I'm 33 with moderate stutter. I'm currently taking speech coaching and it has helped. My little brother is 28 with severe stuttering. He is a teacher. He got fired from his first job but is starting ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
10 points

“I am one of the biggest losers of all time” Don’t be so hard on yourself. You’re likely just an average loser like the rest of us....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
26 points

I doubt the intention is to brag, but to show people that there is hope. I can understand it makes you feel even worse though.....

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
3 points

I'm no expert on this because I still in my 30s struggle with anxiety of stuttering and negative mentality. But I've went through periods where I succeeded in things and the only mentality that work...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
16 points

I'm 31 and unfortunately my life is literally in the shitter. Severe Stuttering has literally ruined my life..I'm doing my part & seeking therapy & trying meds out that could help. But in the ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
9 points

I'm the same age as you, female here.. i feel that my life is stagnant and boring.. how i wish i speak fluently.....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
5 points

Im only 20 so I dont think that i know everything and i could change view on this, but also for me the feeling of not be able to accomplish enything is real and devastating. Im scared to talk to anyba...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
1 points

I have a stutter too and have lived with every struggle you have. If you need someone to talk to who will completely understand you I'm here for you. I will do whatever I can to help a fellow stuttere...

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Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
26 points

26 but in the same boat. And yeah that is the reason i don't interact with this sub anymore. No matter what question you ask or what the post is about, people will come to either tell how great their ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationSadness & Hopelessness+3 more