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Tinder. Been together for 9 years, married for 3. Dating apps are good if you’re a good writer. I don’t mean you have to be F. Scott Fitzgerald, just able to communicate clearly, and ideally with so...

Yeah man it really does suck. I feel like if I were to complete this final step I would be completely done and fulfilled in my self help journey. I notice that when people speak they connect on a deep...

I'm 20 and feel like I'm in a similar spot. Lacking the ability to establish a connection with anyone outside of close family members, and even then that only really happens when they are the ones dri...

Are you meeting up again? Perhaps you came across as a fantastic listener? It is natural for people to feel shy and contribute less when meeting someone. As long as you didn't silently stare at her an...

For the first time no one had to speak for me when I bought food and I feel good.

For the first time no one had to speak for me when I bought food and I feel good. Yesterday (Tue, April 8) at 12 PM, my stutter became the worst it has ever been throughout all my 15 years (i got a he...

Blocking and filler words are the coping technique. The cope is avoiding stuttering which is what causes the struggle and trouble you experience now. The way you get back a block is to take baby steps...

How do i prevent the “voice block” stutter

How do i prevent the “voice block” stutter I don’t have the stereotypical stutter where you’d drag out words e.g m-m-m-money I have a stutter where I struggle to pull out words and instead use a bunch...

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vent you know when one of the things you love most is taken away from you? yeah... that's unfortunately what my stutter as done to me. i love debate so fucking much (no, not just aruging with random ...

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vent you know when one of the things you love most is taken away from you? yeah... that's unfortunately what my stutter as done to me. i love debate so fucking much (no, not just aruging with random ...

vent

vent you know when one of the things you love most is taken away from you? yeah... that's unfortunately what my stutter as done to me. i love debate so fucking much (no, not just aruging with random ...

As a stutterer, I never felt like my stutter ever really hurt me during interviews. The only times where it hurt me was when I felt to nervous to speak and ended up not saying much. As long as you mak...

Dealing with rejections

Dealing with rejections I have a slight stammer which I am able to control and doesn't affect my confidence per se. But it puts a bad impression on the interviewer who thinks I am not prepared or fit ...

I’m 24 and am still kinda shy at first but when I get talking that helps pull me out of my shell, I’m a people person so I like meeting new people. It helps to try and be outgoing and push yourself in...

You have to remember to put yourself out there! You won't get anywhere by sitting in the background for the rest of your life, put yourself in uncomfortable situations where you're the center of atte...

Severe stutterer with social skills and life here- I feel you. It’s hard. But you do it one step and one rep at a time. I approach people in public and they tell me I talk well and have rapport, but i...

Have been on both sides. Have worked in FAANG and have been an applications architect at large companies. I honestly have no good solid advice on how to get good at Systems Design. At the root of it,...

I used to dread phone calls, but now they don't bother me because I can make whatever face I need to while I'm trying to get my words out. Disclosing this before you relay your message might help as w...

Moving to a different place isn't just going to magically change you. If you want a better life, do it where you're at now. Practice getting out of your comfort zone. Put yourself in situations you do...

I hope you found the courage to go in today. When really bad you can always ask a friend to introduce you. Potentially inform the lecturer that you are finding this very difficult. Many will provide s...

The key to fluency is to not think before speaking. Fluent speakers speak when an idea comes to their mind, not words. In order to do this yourself you need to find a way to keep yourself from plannin...