Tinder. Been together for 9 years, married for 3. Dating apps are good if you’re a good writer. I don’t mean you have to be F. Scott Fitzgerald, just able to communicate clearly, and ideally with some humor, through text. That said, I also met several girls just through happenstance, showing up at random events and striking up conversations. It was scary at first, of course. But just do it. The 10th time you do will be a lot easier than the first time, and the 20th time even easier than the 10th.