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commentr/StutterMay 27, 2018
1 points

Yeah\- like I had a stutter for years and then got over it and nope, my brain decided to chuck in some dysarthia just for fun after two months of clear speech\- and people were real shitty about it. B...

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commentr/StutterMay 27, 2018
2 points

I love everything /u/babyjet321 said and second all of that. I think high school is the worst time to be a stutterer, personally. You're in a place where you want to be an individual, but you also hav...

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School & Academic LifeHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2018
1 points

No , im not saying that, i still stutter more severe than ever. What i meant by saying “im done with it” was i just dont want to live my life holding back due to my stammer....

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postr/StutterMay 27, 2018
7 points

Anxiety about transitioning into adulthood

Anxiety about transitioning into adulthood Its just a vent , these are the feelings i ve been having for a long time Okay so my teenagers are almost over . Im 19 now and im terrified of being an adult...

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postr/StutterMay 23, 2018
2 points

Advice Please

Advice Please I have had a on and off stammer for a few years, sometimes it can be gone for 5 months and sometimes it will stay for the same amount of time (I'm 16). It's not really a stammer it's jus...

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commentr/StutterMay 22, 2018
1 points

You read my mind! My dad and I talked about the summer, but I am just not sure yet. I want my dad to come with me since I have never traveled to a big city by myself. I have flown by myself but I wou...

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Helplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMay 22, 2018
5 points

Today I went to sign up for my college classes and it was so frustrated because I couldn’t even talk the whole time it gets me so like idk just weird that I can’t communicate it’s such a big problem

Today I went to sign up for my college classes and it was so frustrated because I couldn’t even talk the whole time it gets me so like idk just weird that I can’t communicate it’s such a big problem [...

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Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2018
0 points

If I were back in gradeschool I would have taken advantage of something like this, but if I were you OP, I'd advise against it. Because all you're doing is pushing that fear down the road. You are goi...

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commentr/StutterMay 20, 2018
2 points

Most of us have had it all our lives. I'm not saying it's something you can do overnight, but if you adopt the right attitude about it, eventually you 100% can find yourself in positions where you beg...

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commentr/StutterMay 20, 2018
1 points

i've had it all my life and it's affected everything i do it's hard to just not let it affect my daily life......

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commentr/StutterMay 20, 2018
3 points

>Avoidance of opportunities You're the one avoiding opportunities, no one is forcing you to avoid them only because you stutter. Remember that Fortune favours the bold....

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commentr/StutterMay 20, 2018
-2 points

Ok then you mean stammering is indeed a hindrance in our lives and will continue to be so till we die. We just have to embrace this failure. Avoidance of opportunities , situations , career choices h...

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commentr/StutterMay 19, 2018
1 points

I took an speech disorder and audiology class a long time ago and my professor said that for people who stutter, saying their name is one of the most difficult things. There’s not a real reason why th...

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commentr/StutterMay 17, 2018
2 points

This, probably the best way to put it. I also had a longgg time where I would never approach a girl first and I'm sure missed out on a lot of oportunities. That's one of my only regets so is letting m...

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commentr/StutterMay 17, 2018
7 points

>what if I didn't have this stutter and approached them Your stutter isn't stopping you from doing this. You are. There are some things about a stutter we have no control over. We can't control ou...

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commentr/StutterMay 16, 2018
1 points

I mean my parents know how much it affects me. I find it hard to talk to my dad about it (who also stutters) because I don't want him feeling any type of way knowing it's the one thing I hate most ab...

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commentr/StutterMay 16, 2018
2 points

A lot of these posts popping up about stutters holding people back in life recently eh? Like most people say, and ill say it again, you cant let it get to you. I dont know how bad yours is, mine has...

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commentr/StutterMay 15, 2018
3 points

I feel the same way, but I don't think I'd be helping you by writing out my commiserations. I think it will be most productive for you to adopt the mindset that it is yourself rather than your stutter...

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Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2018
2 points

Désolé, je préfère m'exprimer en français parce que je maîtrise mal la langue anglaise. Je suis bègue depuis l'âge de 4 ou 5 ans, et j'ai 57 ans maintenant. Je peux dire que ça a à demi détruit ma vi...

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commentr/StutterMay 14, 2018
1 points

Ah I'm happy that you were able find a way out of Stuttering. Since I dont think that will happen for me any time soon, if ever, were you able to cope and still speak vietnamese jn an understandable w...

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