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postr/StutterJan 4, 2020
37 points

I feel like I’m at the end of my rope.

I feel like I’m at the end of my rope. I’ve had a stutter my entire life. I thought I had reached the point of acceptance but I’ve realized that I’ve just done by best to suppress my feelings towards ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterJan 4, 2020
7 points

Help with blocks

Help with blocks Hello my fellow stutterers, I‘m gonna start with a little background story: I‘ve stuttered my whole life. Did a lot of speech therapy when I was a child and some more in my adolescenc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2020
3 points

I think a scene showing how frequently many stutters have to be concious of their speaking/techniques/etc could be powerful. I speak to friends, colleagues, and even family and when it becomes clear t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2020
2 points

Yes definitely. Sometimes I get it out but that’s when they say ”what?” and I gotta repeat it and then I can’t get it out,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterJan 1, 2020
3 points

Observations after becoming an ESL teacher and learning another language.

Observations after becoming an ESL teacher and learning another language. Hey, I've always wanted to share my thoughts on this since I've thought it was interesting. Before college, I wasn't fluent wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 31, 2019
5 points

As a blocking stutterer I'll have to try this. I've spent decades editing what I plan to say to avoid blocking. I must say that thinking about what I say has meant that I possibly speak in a more arti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2019
3 points

I also never really agreed with the idea that the stutter doesn't define me. If I'm being honest, most of the decisions I've made were based on some voice in the back of my head constantly doubting if...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 30, 2019
3 points

This is a super interesting question that I think has many facets. As humans we are very complex. We have so many areas to develop that end up defining us. A lot of people are defined by their careers...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2019
3 points

​ My last name, my home town, and my high school all start with /m/. Saying any /m/ word for me brought on 30-60 second stutters. Shame and fear drove it (i.e. "I should be able to say m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterDec 29, 2019
30 points

Vent

Vent I'm done ignoring it or pretending it will go away and I'm done trying to work towards ''fixing'' it. I can't hold a conversation with the ones I love and I can't tell jokes or include myself in ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterDec 28, 2019
16 points

Physical

Physical I am 20 years old and i have been stuttering for as long as i can remember. This last 2 years it got extremely worse because of emotional stuff. I also accepted this and i am working on just...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological Rhythms+2 more
postr/StutterDec 27, 2019
6 points

Got a job recently

Got a job recently So I started working an internship recently, so I'm at the learning phase so I have to ask my seniors extremely difficult and complex questions. That make me stutter even more than ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 25, 2019
1 points

I honestly don’t think when I’m talking well I’m thinking but I’m not picking up words for me to use later on the conversation...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterDec 25, 2019
6 points

Talking to another person that stutters

Talking to another person that stutters Is this something that others find weird or interesting? How do you react? I had a co worker in another department that had a bad stutter. Whenever I spoke to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterDec 25, 2019
52 points

I am done with this world.

I am done with this world. Hello everyone, I just want to share my story as I am feeling very depressed . I have a serious problem when it comes to conversing with ppl. This all start when I was a kid...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2019
5 points

Happens to me Everytime when someone gets me off guard and I do not process what to say beforehand lol. I feel you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2019
2 points

Oh my gosh I am guilty of this-- I have very severe ADHD and I have to actively stop myself from "helping" with the word. Now that my stutter is so bad I can see the other side of the road, and I real...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionListener ReactionsOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2019
20 points

I hate it when i block and then people try to guess the word that i wanted to say! And worst thing is they usually get it wrong and I'd have to repeat myself. Like damn just wait a lil bit i got i don...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsParent & Caregiver
Avoidance & SubstitutionListener ReactionsOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2019
1 points

It’s crazy how we can anticipate stutters coming a few words ahead. I’ve gotten good at changing words or my sentence structure on the fly. I also talk when I’m by myself. I’ll rehearse conversations...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2019
2 points

Hi! I think your analogy is great. I’m a 20 y/o with a stammer, and have been in and out of speech therapy all my life. I personally like to address my stammer all the time, always trying to find way...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringSeverity & FluctuationTrauma & Psychological