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commentr/StutterJun 3, 2024
5 points

Honestly, for me, answering the phone the same way over and over made it easier. I had a "phone voice" which helped it come out smoothly....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
3 points

I’ve had this problem before a couple times, it’s always a written script that catches you off guard. What I did was change a word or two to their synonym or try speak a bit faster so you don’t have t...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
2 points

I don’t stutter when asking people out but once I talk with one coworker I stutter so much I shut my mouth until the shift is over...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
2 points

I've had a stutter for a long time, but can usually avoid it if I can calm myself or if I literally don't care about the situation. I found out in college that if I smoked weed I didn't stutter... Pro...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & SubstancesCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelpful Med OutcomesTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
1 points

Not really, it sucks ass and I hate it. For some, probably. I have found ways around it, so for me personally, no....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
6 points

Adopt the mindset of “if I was born with a stutter, then you have to listen to it”. Practice helps also. Speaking is just like anything else and if you don’t use it, you lose it. Try to read out-loud ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
22 points

You sound like me when I was in Highschool. If I had the balls to do it, I would have taken my own life. Glad I didn’t because life did get better and now I’m married and things are pretty chill. I ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
0 points

If you have recently started stuttering then the best thing is to FORGET about it and move on. The more you discuss the more it gets into your head....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
2 points

>"You mean not notice and so bypass the anticipatory effect resulting in spontaneous fluency, correct" No, I actually meant something completely different. I realize that I didn't make it clear enoug...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
0 points

if the "belief" that we will stutter on our name can trigger speech blocks. Then this sort of self-fulfilling procesy - or distorted belief - can possibly also trigger speech blocks if they believe th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2024
1 points

If you start to block on a word try pausing then taking a breath and saying a different word with the same meaning. I have tried to practice this to the point where I can seamlessly switch out words I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2024
21 points

People who say "spit it out" often don't realize you stutter. They're used to fluent speech and can be impatient. It's rude and inconsiderate. Once informed, they usually stop. It's happened to me bef...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Listener ReactionsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2024
2 points

Background noise serves a distraction or masking noise for me...so I stutter less in background noise--I just wish background noise was loud enough to drown out the sound of my own voice!!!...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Environmental TriggersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2024
2 points

My stutter isn’t solved, I still do it, but I can better hide it. My stutter is from anxiety. I am on anxiety meds, it helps, but there are mental tricks that you can do to assist you. For instance, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2024
2 points

Thank you for replying, I thought I was going crazy!! My entire life that I was in school I would always have conversations with my teachers and professors about my stutter and how I felt about speaki...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2024
6 points

Pun intended, but I practice elevator speeches. Quick, concise, impactful blurbs. Sometimes when I block, I ramble as I look for functioning synonyms....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2024
1 points

The resilience often goes unspoken, so yes. But complete peace depends on the trajectory one has set for themselves. If you aspire to be a captivating public speaker, for example, the very goal cannot...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2024
2 points

Ok here’s a twist. Do not put your speech impediment on your resume. You’re already giving the company a reason to not hire you. Communication is probably the most essential thing in a lot of jobs. I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2024
3 points

You're not overthinking at all! I understand you perfectly and it's something that frustrates me a lot too. It happens to me frequently. When they do that, it's like they're invalidating a huge porti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
3 points

Yes, expectation is another factor. On a related but slightly different example, if I expect to stutter on a word or phrase, then I will. It's like knowing I'm going to have difficulty saying it. All ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment