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postr/StutterApr 7, 2019
44 points

My stutter is affecting my confidence and my ability to lead a normal life

My stutter is affecting my confidence and my ability to lead a normal life TL;DR - law student struggling with a stutter which has led to serious confidence and mental health issues This is the first...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2019
1 points

Yeah i would trade my stutter for my left arms, a leg, fingers, an eye, any fuckin day, let me speak my mind, let me speak my soul, the difference between an animal and a human is speech, that's, noth...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2019
1 points

Don't make stuttering be your crutch or excuse. You can be an extrovert if that's what you are. And you can live a fulfilling life as a stutterer, no excuses. Find a local stuttering support group you...

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Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2019
2 points

Dont stress man. I know in the moment it feels like crap. If it makes you feel any better, I didnt follow through with this job I posted about because they didnt work with my negotiations and I trust ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2019
1 points

Welp i didnt get it. Ngl, usually I’m ok with rejections but this one’s got me down. I actually liked this company, the job looked really interesting and the manager was super chill. I wish there wa...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2019
1 points

The difficult bit is seeing people actually walk the fuck away as I’m trying to do those things because of how I talk. Ain’t very simple...

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2019
2 points

When I was your age I stuttered so badly I hurt strained my neck muscles. My stutter has improved but it never did vanished. Some days and in some situations my speech is still pretty bad. All I can s...

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postr/StutterMar 22, 2019
6 points

A College Interview Experience

A College Interview Experience Hello! I’ve written on r/stutter before, but I had my boyfriend post it (who also stutters). I finally got a reddit account though! I’m glad that many of you could relat...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2019
0 points

I'm with you, but I'm no longer down about it. We have a slight disability. Compared to other disabled people, I think we (I) have it very good. I have a pretty severe stutter and don't apply for jobs...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2019
5 points

You are a brave man you know. Not to mention an inspiration to me. And I couldn't agree more that we are wingless ravens, this disability of ours has stopped so many of us from acheiving so much. It h...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2019
19 points

I hear ya. I feel the same way. Especially about the part about feeling like we are limited to the jobs that we can do. I previously asked on here, “What would be the perfect job for a person who stu...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2019
2 points

I'm sorry you're experiencing this - I have a moderate stutter, and I know how challenging it can be and how much it has impacted my mental health and self-esteem. ​ I guess I still have...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2019
3 points

Me and you both, I love speaking and sharing ideas, but yes having a stammer holds me back soo much. Find people who do not care about your stammer, find people who will be patient. Really you will b...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2019
27 points

I have a friend who is confined to a wheelchair for the rest of his life. I asked him what his one wish would be. He said that he would wish to have working legs so he could run with his dog and walk ...

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postr/StutterMar 19, 2019
61 points

I was born a social, extrovert person but my stutter has always made me mute and introvert

I was born a social, extrovert person but my stutter has always made me mute and introvert In my mind at school I always wanted to talk and be active in conversations but I always just stood there and...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2019
4 points

I remember when I entered speech therapy I was "on the border of very severe" now I would classify myself as moderate on average. I honestly don't think acceptance - for me, at least - is possible at...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2019
-1 points

Self hate isnt going to make anything better. A lot of people will encourage this type of ranting behavior, but I hope you stop feeling sorry for yourself. You are a smart capable individual gettint t...

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2019
8 points

This is exactly why I believe speech disorders are some of the most awful disabilities. Your stutter prevented you from succeeding in something I’m positive you’re great in! More research has to be ...

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commentr/StutterMar 17, 2019
2 points

Be thankful for what you have. Don’t take the other aspects of your life for granted. You were given a poor hand — sure — nothing to do about that. So do your best to perfect yourself in the areas tha...

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Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2019
2 points

How would you define useless? I don’t think anyone is useless! Yes everyone does useless things but to think of ones self as useless is sad Most people are nice too, sometimes patronisingly nice and ...

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