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commentr/StutterAug 1, 2020
1 points

It's really degrading when people laugh when we encounter blocks, makes us feel pathetic. It just sucks. Thankfully there are people like your bf. It's really a warm feeling knowing that non-stuttere...

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commentr/StutterAug 1, 2020
1 points

Every stutterer resents that part of themselves that stutters. I am sure it would be like a whole another dimension of hell if you get stuck with other people who stutter. Seeing other people stutter ...

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commentr/StutterAug 1, 2020
2 points

I feel your pain so much.... All we need to overcome this hell we are in is to have a strategy on how we talk.. Sometimes I cry and wish I wasn't even born.. Non stutters don't know what we go throu...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2020
3 points

i will say this path is the best way it your stutter is severe. stuttering has embarrassed me in the past but most of those embarrassing moments come from blocking. sitting there not being able to utt...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2020
2 points

Honestly, I can and can't imagine how you feel. We all take it in a different way.. but one thing is for sure- it hurts and you don't deserve to hear that. That's not true. I have series of traumas ma...

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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2020
7 points

I'd start with a Psychologist and an Speech therapist (better if both are used to work with people who stutter, not all know how to handle it). The speech therapist will give you tools to gain some fl...

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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2020
1 points

My depression and ego dissolution have caused me to stutter worse. It's like when I'm around people these days I can't be myself and result in saying words I know I won't stutter on like "thats true" ...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2020
2 points

Hey! I have exact "problem" with my bf. He obviously knows I stutter, but we never had that "talk"... Sometimes he makes funny of it (not in the bad way) but he does not understand what is like to hav...

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postr/StutterJul 22, 2020
11 points

Stuttering is the worse illness to have

Stuttering is the worse illness to have Imagine being in a social interaction and everyone else can speak normally. but when it's your turn to speak you get stuck on a sentence and everyone in the gro...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2020
2 points

O yes I hated that. i Also remember in highscool when they made me read outloud. I can still hear people laughing in the background. Even my friends laughed. Still haunts me to this day...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2020
4 points

I can totally feel you. When the teacher ask me to read infront of the class that embarrassing moment, when there is a viva I can't express myself and every damn time I know the answer, when I have to...

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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2020
5 points

Our memories could've been better. Imagine how nice it would be to look back at our childhood and not have any insults or painful memories to remember. Instead Just fun and innocence. There's too much...

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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2020
7 points

I definitely get this. I’ve stuttered since I was in 4th grade. Never had a shred of self confidence since. I never spoke up in school and I never made new friends. It’s ruined my self confidence ...

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postr/StutterJul 18, 2020
72 points

People think I’m slow and stupid for stuttering.

People think I’m slow and stupid for stuttering. Yesterday I was expressing some things I was passionate about and I kept f*cking up and having prolongations and blocks. But I kept going because why n...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2020
2 points

It's a long process to change your way of thinking and not feeling hurt. It's a good thing to be emotional, don't think you suddenly have to suppress those feelings, it's more about developing a thick...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2020
2 points

Don’t you ever feel ashamed of your stutter. You need to put people like that in their place. It enrages me when people look down at us like that. We are perfectly capable of talking, god forbid someo...

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commentr/StutterJul 15, 2020
2 points

I should try that just in case I don’t like being teased or mocked over my stutter it just makes me feel bad. But thank you for the advice....

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commentr/StutterJul 15, 2020
1 points

No she’s stayed at our house before because she had no place to live. She for sure knew I had a stutter because we’ve talked before. I just really was offended because it was infront of my whole famil...

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commentr/StutterJul 15, 2020
1 points

Thank you for putting that in another perspective for me, it really makes me want to change my way of thinking about it. I will no longer be bothered if someone mocks me or something it’s just i’m an ...

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commentr/StutterJul 15, 2020
2 points

I am so sorry, that was so thoughtless of her and it hit you hard because your home should be a safe zone. Just some food for thought: It is important to realise that your thoughts create how you feel...

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