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commentr/StutterOct 30, 2017
10 points

I'm not going to have my speech impediment hold me back from socialization, even if it hurts my ego. I wouldn't feel right if I were to have a text-to-speech program read off what I wanted to say. If ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2017
2 points

I definitely don't feel like this is a truck or a technique. I've had speech therapy before where I got techniques to try, like extreme prolongations or starting my sentence on an out breath. These t...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 27, 2017
7 points

Staring and observing: practical tips for combating your stutter

Staring and observing: practical tips for combating your stutter Hello everyone, I would like to share with you all a technique I found extremely effective to help me with my stutter. I noticed duri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2017
1 points

That’s because when you read you are kind of acting. When I’m acting I stutter less. It’s not about you. You take the pressure out. You don’t have yourself on the way....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2017
1 points

I learnt how to remain calm and control my emotions and it made a huge difference. I worked in a software company for almost 2 years and my job was to lead software development and handle all the tech...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2017
1 points

Do you write or draw or paint. Maybe you can show them what your experience is in a way other then speaking. ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2017
2 points

I used to be pretty covert but I'm kind of getting tired of it and getting more comfortable with my stutter so I'm trying to do the first case and be alright with my stutter as much as possible!...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2017
4 points

Theoretically, the first one is the better choice. It helps you to feel comfortable with your stutter thus making you more confident which does wonders for your stutter. Emphasis on 'theoretically' t...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2017
1 points

I usually (not always tho) do the first one with people that know that I stutter (which are my parents, my bro and some very close friends) but I pratically always do the second one with people that d...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterOct 17, 2017
3 points

Do you prefere to stutter or to express the same concept with different words by changing the sentence?

Do you prefere to stutter or to express the same concept with different words by changing the sentence? Ex.: if you would like to say "I don't like going to the restaurants" but after you say "I" you ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2017
7 points

Update: It went pretty well, actually. Her family is really nice and understanding. Her niece and nephew pointed out my stutter, but they’re really little so it was kind of cute. The only person who d...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2017
2 points

They already know you stutter so what do you have to prove? Honestly, I'm older than you and I will tell you that it bothers you much more than anyone else....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2017
2 points

You just be you, Theres one thing you have to do though, and that's standing up as you shake someones hand, never sit down in a sofa and reach for a hand etc. You can be pretty quiet in this meeting...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2017
2 points

Yeah I met my boyfriends parents and I was so nervous like hell I felt so ill and my anxiety levels were through the roof and I don't have anxiety! Just remember if you make your gf happy, they will m...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2017
4 points

Hey, Do not think of that too much. Why should you impress them? You've already impressed her, so have fun and leave your anxiety alone....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2017
1 points

I have been "cured" although it somehow feels odd to call it that. I stuttered severely as a child and seemed to just outgrow it as I grew out of my teens and into adulthood. Hard to say exactly ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2017
6 points

I’m a mom so not my personal experience. I haven’t seen a “cure” but I have seen people walking through their fears and finding freedom. Your stutter is a part of you, but there’s a hell of a lot mo...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2017
5 points

There's no cures. There's different treatments that work depending on the type of person. Personally, my cure is to reduce my social anxiety and that's by going out and talking to people. Gaining conf...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2017
4 points

This is true for me as well. I think it's to do with a couple things. The flow of consciousness that pours out when your angry, there's little time for thought about what you're going to say, *it just...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightFrustration & AngerAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2017
5 points

Yes yes yes I am the same way. Because I am not thinking about what I have to say or how I say it. I think with you and I our minds block us from speaking our thoughts. We do it to ourselves without...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking