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commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2018
7 points

I'm a dude. I've gotten the "your stutter is cute" one time. Guess it's better than never. Good job on your managing and coping with it. I do the same as you. I joke about it a lot, I embrace it. I...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2018
2 points

The talk itself was nice, I'm not refuting that. But if you want more depth than the surface ideas presented you really should look into the author and the research she has done. I say "surface idea...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Propositionality & WeightAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterFeb 11, 2018
8 points

I can across this Ted Talk on Vulnerability and it made me think about how as a stutterer, I'm always vulnerable when I begin talking. I'd love to see what you all think also.

I can across this Ted Talk on Vulnerability and it made me think about how as a stutterer, I'm always vulnerable when I begin talking. I'd love to see what you all think also. ...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2018
2 points

I am going to echo some of the other sentiments I've read so far. The best thing you can do for yourself is to do presentation work. No matter what job you have you will need to communicate verball...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingSchool & Academic LifeSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2018
5 points

The worst thing you can do is avoid it. My major had 3 oral requirements that had me do presentations constantly. I just got up and did them after tirelessly practicing. I had to do 10+ minute cas...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2018
1 points

It’s like we let our guard down with our family, I’m not trying to impress them with my coping skills, I’m being my truest self and thats me being a stutterer. ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2018
1 points

Hey, do you tell the new people you stutter? I know if you don't do that it can feel impossible. But for many people it is part of a way out of the hiding and avoidance and dread that you're talking...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
1 points

Thank you for your insight. Sounds like you are doing very well! That's awesome. Being open about that would probably help me too. I often tell myself to now introduce myself as a stutterer to all ne...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
1 points

I did one at end of bachelors, end of masters and now frequently during my PhD. People know I stutter but it isn't that bad in general (have bad days though). For my bachelor's I didn't mention it to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
3 points

I think... it's important to be open about these things instead of carrying them around. The contrast between the hidden and the surface is simply not a good thing to have to maintain. See if you can...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
1 points

Well that's a question I ask myself often actually! I'd love to be more open about it but couldn't make the jump yet. Was even thinking of a tattoo on my handshaking-arm to just force it lol To be cle...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
1 points

Oh, so you haven't told anyone? That doesn't sound healthy. You should be allowed to share such a thing! Why do you feel like you have to hide it?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
1 points

Maybe kind of. I think it's more about the exposition of my stutter though...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2018
4 points

I've met other stutterers over the years, but as a very covert stutterer, I never said anything to them. When I was younger I'll confess that I felt quite shamed and alarmed to encounter another stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2018
3 points

Focus on the moment and what you want to say. Don't get caught up in trying to speak fluently and carry a conversation. What you just said - however you said it - is already said. Don't fear failing t...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2018
2 points

Open up about your stutter. It's hard, I know, been there, done that. But it's worth it! And there are situations and ppl I still try to hide my stutter. Or it takes a while till I have the guts to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2018
2 points

I agree with u/nukefudge. It sounds bat shit crazy but actually letting my stutter manifest helped me to stutter more easily/less forcibly/shorter. I think hiding or not letting any form of stuttering...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2018
1 points

College student and SLP undergraduate here that stutters. As many you've probably experienced, the classroom can definitely be one of the hardest environments for us. Recently, I had to introduce myse...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2018
2 points

Worked in journalism as a reporter/editor for six years and recently moved to magazine editor. Reporting was running through the gauntlet at first as a stutterer, but I also credit being thrown into t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2018
2 points

I'm very glad you decided to stay in the class! I have an issue particularly with blocking in classroom settings. I have always avoided taking classes that require a lot of speaking in front of the wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more