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commentr/StutterMay 22, 2018
3 points

You should know all of this is completely normal. Most stutterers have physical manifestations, and eyes closing/twitching is probably the most common. I agree with natabean that disclosing your stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingSchool & Academic Life+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2018
1 points

I really agree. I actually [just posted about something similar](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/8kkw7j/my_strategy_ive_been_using_for_quite_some_time/) before seeing your post. You just got...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2018
11 points

I’m about ten years older than you, but your story is very similar to mine. I’d love to tell you that there’s always the chance that you will somehow cure your stutter down the road, but realistically...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2018
3 points

I feel the same way, but I don't think I'd be helping you by writing out my commiserations. I think it will be most productive for you to adopt the mindset that it is yourself rather than your stutter...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2018
4 points

Hello! The course is in the idea stage right now. I'm trying to figure out some things that people specifically want to know so that the course can be as helpful as can be! That's what brought me to ...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Therapy ExperiencesMedicalization / NeurodiversityAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2018
1 points

Different people have different views about blocks. Some people view them as an avoidance behavior, not one we do consciously, but one that we have become conditioned to do. We are trying to avoid stu...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2018
7 points

Very good! Edit: I like how it represents a certain mindset very common among us stutterers \- that life, and especially situations like ordering food \- are analogous to some kind of graded/evaluate...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2018
2 points

So glad I'm not alone on this. I'm trying to own my stutter and not care, but it's a mindset that I'm so far away from. ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2018
2 points

My advice would be use it as an opportunity to practice and overcome the mental barrier of the stutter ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2018
2 points

Download a DAF (Delayed Audio Feedback) app for your phone for around $20 and try it out with bluetooth headphones to test it out. There's absolutely no reason to spend $5k on such a device. DAF devi...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Assistive DevicesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2018
5 points

Actually I reasonate with what he said in the podcast. He said that he basically changed his subconcious by repeating 'stop stuttering now' whilst taking the shrooms which I guess helped him access hi...

Coping & AdvocacyMeds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposurePsychedelics & MicrodosingAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2018
1 points

i hear ya, i used to feel that way. to be honest, i think worrying about stuttering in front of other people hindered me from getting into a good relationship for far too long (i've been married now f...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2018
1 points

>On some level, it feels weird to be opening up to a new person about this in a way I've never been able to bring myself to with any of the people I already know. I feel like this is the core part...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2018
2 points

This. I have everything I hoped to have as an adult. College degree, degree relevant job, house, GF, friends. I consider myself to have a severe stutter but I never let it stop me from living life. ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2018
1 points

Super introvert. Can't come up with topics of chat or hold a conversation. I will not butt into another conversation no matter how much I can contribute to the discussion. I just want to be left alone...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2018
3 points

It's because speaking is fickle when you have a stutter. You mustn't think it's because of something you're doing wrong. :) I reckon you'll also encounter situations where the word worked in the begi...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2018
3 points

No idea how universal this experience is, but for me, a large part of my anxiety and avoidance was due to my fear of a bad speaking situation. Being judged. Being counterproductive. Having someone lau...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2018
17 points

Stuttering really needs to be approached holistically. For people who don't stutter when they are by themselves, the issue with stutter comes down to tension from anxiety in social situations and the...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & WeightMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2018
5 points

Yeah, I am a lifelong stutterer. 40 years old. Have done everything except for any mechanical devices that go in the ear. I just refuse those. I can keep it to a minimum if I sleep right, train right,...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2018
4 points

Speech therapy, reading out loud, meeting other stutterers, exercising, or anything that helps with confidence. Hitting the gym or a stepping up the wardrobe, for instance. Everyone is different. On...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more