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commentr/StutterSep 12, 2021
1 points

Yea. I get anxiety too watching videos of people stuttering. It’s like we just gotta be ok with being around stuttering in general, whether our experience or someone else’s...

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commentr/StutterSep 12, 2021
3 points

I think being able to become desensitized to hearing other people stutter is good for us, because any desensitization is good. But I too also get kinda hyper focused on it if I think somebody else st...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2021
2 points

Damn, that sucks dude. I can totally understand how that event would stay with you. It may or may not be any solace, but you went up there on stage because your peers (and teachers?) thought you were ...

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postr/StutterSep 12, 2021
50 points

Anyone else feel weird listening to other people stutter?

Anyone else feel weird listening to other people stutter? I’ve been taking taking this storytelling course online and I can tell the instructor has a very mild stutter than I’m assuming most people wo...

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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2021
1 points

I have a friend that said that growing up, he had a friend that stuttered. My friend said that he always thought stuttering was cool, so he would fake a stutter. And he would fake a lisp because he th...

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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2021
1 points

Ya it's a bit like you know they are lying, and trying to be nice. And really we just want people to be authentic, but at least they aren't laughing or mocking you!...

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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2021
3 points

I have anxiety anyway so developing a mindset around stuttering that wasn't based on shame made a huge difference for me. I actually think of this r/stutter as a support group in a way. For most p...

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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2021
1 points

I don't think we here nearly enough about stuttering support groups in this sub. I'm happy to hear that your support group has helped you....

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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2021
5 points

This is so relatable. I started going to a stuttering support group + speech therapy a couple years go and even though my stutter isn’t really “better”, I feel soooo much better about it. Scenario...

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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2021
2 points

Stutter or not, I wish more people appreciated the listening qualities from people....

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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2021
2 points

Most people who think of suicide don’t actually want to die. They want to die because of something that hurts them very much. I was just like you March 2021. I dug myself a grave so deep, it fucking s...

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Suicidal Ideation & High DistressValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2021
1 points

Hey bud! It's totally normal that you are feeling these emotions. Hang in there - It's going to be fine. We all get nervous when we have to introduce ourselves or say something where we know that we ...

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postr/StutterSep 6, 2021
13 points

Quote

Quote This guy I chatted with earlier texted me : You might be interested in a quotation by a non-stutterer from a letter written many years ago by Thomas Carlyle, the historian, to Ralph Waldo Emer...

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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2021
2 points

People look at these kind of things differently, something that is hard to us won't even be a matter of thought to a non-stutterer. If you keep dating her she may understand a little bit more, for now...

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postr/StutterSep 6, 2021
5 points

My mini accomplishment rejected

My mini accomplishment rejected I’ve been dating this woman. She seemed really genuine and super sweet. Someone that didn’t judge me based on my severe stutter. Maybe someone who could understand. We...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2021
1 points

So true. I've seen a lot of posts on here of "omg how do i talk to my crush without stuttering????" but I often think if someone's very impatient and intolerant against you stuttering then what does i...

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postr/StutterSep 4, 2021
13 points

hey!!! you all matter!!×

hey!!! you all matter!!× remember this!!! you are all very important!!! do not let your voice or how you sound define who you are. I've hurt myself and almost killed myself over it but now i realize....

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2021
1 points

It's very complicated to conjecture whether a stutterer can recover or not but I just have got sick of some extremely negative ppl ranting and blowing up others' confidences,and don't know him a singl...

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2021
5 points

really? you’ve never seen someone say “try to imagine where the other person is coming from” as a way of dealing with the mistreatment stutterers face? because i’ve seen that line of thinking here mor...

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commentr/StutterSep 3, 2021
4 points

Have you read the things you said in this subreddit? Because I've never seen anyone here saying something like that and i've never seen people who let other people be rude to them either here....

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