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My mini accomplishment rejected I’ve been dating this woman. She seemed really genuine and super sweet. Someone that didn’t judge me based on my severe stutter. Maybe someone who could understand. We went on a mini vacation at the beach. We were taking pictures together, and someone came to ask if we needed our picture taken. I was able to speak up. I was able to speak for me and her. I was able to say “no”. Not in a mean manner. Not hateful, no hidden meaning. I was able to say “No” without stuttering. YES! I did it! I did the thing… the thing I struggle with. I felt great. It felt great. I had a mini victory, a mini accomplishment and she was there to witness it! It was the total opposite. I didn’t say “no thank you”. She made sure that my mini accomplishment was rude and unjust. That I made the person feel bad, by just saying no. I felt like I was being scolded by a parent. And set the tone for the rest of the day. Some hours later, I explained to her how I felt and what was happening. She apologized and moved on, but sometimes apologies aren’t enough. Sorry only means something so many times. This really affected me. To her it was just another apology. Can any of you give your insight or opinions?