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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
8 points

Hey! I remeber in 7th grade I was called on to read a paragraph out of our history text book. Couldn’t make it through the second sentence. That caused the teacher to email my mom and suggest I be put...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
10 points

I know how it feels I really do. Just try to be the better person and try to forgive them. They just don't know how it is to live with a stutter. Remember, there are people just like you who are going...

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postr/StutterMar 3, 2021
30 points

Whole class laughed at me today.

Whole class laughed at me today. I stuttered a bit when the teacher asked me a question, and then some people from my class started mocking me. The teacher laughed at me too, nearly the whole class ac...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
6 points

I'm sorry about your fall out. The truth is your sister doesn't know anything about stuttering and jumping to learn and work on a bunch of techniques likely isn't going to help. It'll more likely make...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
5 points

I'm really sorry to hear that your sister reacted in such a way. I can understand why you may feel like that one interaction halted any progress you've made. I do agree with what someone said below, t...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
2 points

Substituting words isn't a "technique" as such. It's an emergency tool. But it's not a guaranteed succes, and may diminsh in efficiency over time, as well as leading to having a worse time stuttering,...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
34 points

I think what most people don't realise is that we stutterers are already as harsh and critical on ourselves on why we aren't pronouncing words or speaking up for ourselves fluently, so we don't need t...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
11 points

It was so bad once upon a time that in alevels I could not even think of the word "stutter". I felt so much shame in just thinking about the word. So I feel that this is growth, that now I can tell ...

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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
11 points

Your sister should show you patience. It kind of feels like you’re not getting the support you need. Personally, for me, my stutter is a source of shame for me. I don’t know about you, but I feel like...

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postr/StutterMar 3, 2021
55 points

I am so hurt. Today my sister told me that I was not doing enough with my stutter. That I didn't want to get better. I feel so crushed.

I am so hurt. Today my sister told me that I was not doing enough with my stutter. That I didn't want to get better. I feel so crushed. I was trying to say "polio", a word that contains the dreaded "p...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2021
1 points

I have been in similar situations too. My stutter began when I was a 13 year old and I also remember that we were reading in our English language class. I was somehow able to read through the paragrap...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2021
6 points

Hey, thanks for the post. I kinda need it today. Today my self-esteem took a hit. I have a job that i don't care if i stutter or not because i now my value and im confident, but im also ending my mas...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2021
1 points

After 30 years I don’t really care that much if it’s just a small laugh, it’s when they make a judgment that I must be under the influence of drugs. My friend and I walked into a bar one time, I strug...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2021
2 points

It was indeed a very difficult situation.I got upset because of it throughout my entire teenage but I always held onto hope thinking that stutter isn't what drives me and I kept moving forward in my l...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2021
1 points

Fair enough, I’ve been lucky I think and have received minimal negative attention due to my stutter (either that or I’ve blocked out a lot haha)...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2021
3 points

I don't like it. I've been laughed at too many times in a malicious way to be OK with any form of it....

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postr/StutterFeb 26, 2021
4 points

Got laughed at on omegle for stutter

Got laughed at on omegle for stutter Was trying to talk to two girls and I just stuttered and they both started laughing and started to speak really slow and say “speak like this” with their words elo...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2021
15 points

I came here to say this. I have many people laugh at me (a small giggle) the first time I stutter in front of them as recent as yesterday with a co-worker but she was nice to me besides that giggle. A...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2021
3 points

I’m sorry to hear that you and your fiancée had to go through that experience must have been hard unfortunately it does happen, a lot of ppl lack self awareness when it comes to stuttering, I she does...

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postr/StutterFeb 26, 2021
74 points

A restaurant server laughed at my fiancée when she was stuck on a word, and I could use some advice

A restaurant server laughed at my fiancée when she was stuck on a word, and I could use some advice My fiancée is my favorite person in the entire world. She has a stutter that worsens when she's arou...

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