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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2020
11 points

Your name came be the hardest thing to say sometimes. It's often in a stressful moment when you meet a new person and sometimes you don't expect it. You want to make a good first impression so you thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2020
2 points

Heya! I’m a senior in university with ADHD (diagnosed as a child) and a stutter as well. I didn’t have the luxury of finding ways to cope and diagnose it when I was younger, but you’re doing great thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2020
6 points

I’m not sure I get what you’re asking. Are you asking how my (a stutterer) brain works? I have no idea. For all I know, it’s some sort of magical grey organic computer that generates electricity. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2020
3 points

I wholeheartedly agree and feel you. I am in the exact situation, I was reading so much about stuttering and stutterers the last 3 years cuz I felt my condition is unique! In all my relationships, ev...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
5 points

Yea a feel you man, reading outloud is often a set back move. I'm assuming you are more fluent when you by yourself or talking to a pet, maybe you don't stutter at all. And that just proves you don'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2020
1 points

Lean into the emotions of the situation other than fear. When I think too much about not stuttering, it's debilitating. If I'm preoccupied with the rest of the interaction the stutters are just minor ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 28, 2020
3 points

Just a quick glance at it - I'm not sure this guy's course is the cure-all it claims to be. There is a bit more research out on stuttering these days about the common genetic markers that we all hav...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2020
1 points

the only positive to this, is that they didn’t notice. your stutter might be much more mental than you think....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2020
3 points

That's the thing... we can't keep dodging. Substitution is usually advised against. It also tends to add more stress to the act of sentence construction, when you've got several potential tracks runni...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2020
1 points

Yeah man... just need to focus without trying to hard. I started a YouTube channel to be more aware of my speech and I have noticed that it helps to listen to yourself....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Overthinking & MonitoringPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2020
2 points

And do you feel like you're in control of your personality still? It's not putting undue stress on you, having to "perform" in order to be able to talk? I'm asking because this is the sort of thing w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2020
3 points

Yes. I learned early on I don't stutter when I do accents, when I read aloud, or do impersonations. So, I started practicing doing accents/impersonations more and more subtle to the point you couldn'...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringSituational VariabilityFluency Techniques
postr/StutterSep 19, 2020
6 points

Should I just talk and ignore my blocks

Should I just talk and ignore my blocks So I block stutter and before I talk I’m always thinking about not stuttering and while I talk it’s the same thing. Should I just talk without worrying Bc if st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2020
2 points

Speech performance is a complex matter. We behave differently, depending on which context we're in. It's very common for stutter to increase in situations where something is at stake (e.g. a crucial c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityTherapy & Professional
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2020
2 points

I think the experience of stuttering can be interpreted in many ways. So, that's probably what you're experiencing - the potential for interpretation, and your line of thinking about it. What I mean ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringSituational Variability
postr/StutterSep 18, 2020
5 points

When I’m having speech blocks I sometimes feel like I’m supposed to start talking on beat in a song/on a rhythm?

When I’m having speech blocks I sometimes feel like I’m supposed to start talking on beat in a song/on a rhythm? I often notice that whenever I have speech blocks there is this subconscious rhythm goi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringCycles & Randomness+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2020
4 points

Yes! Or when you actually say something perfectly fluent but they didn’t hear you and ask you to repeat it. So much worse when they’re staring right at you intently listening the second time....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2020
4 points

When I finally get out what I'm trying to say and the person I'm talking to says they didn't understand and asks me to repeat it. Just makes me wanna get up and leave...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2020
2 points

Yea at my job we use walkies to communicate, i speak fine when i don’t press the talking button soon as i do its a different story, its making me think stuttering is a psychological problem...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterSep 16, 2020
21 points

Does this happen to anyone else?

Does this happen to anyone else? Ive always known that I can read or talk alone and not stutter a single word but i noticed something weird. If I'm talking to someone over the phone or ordering a pizz...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringSituational VariabilityLoss of Control