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commentr/StutterMay 21, 2020
2 points

Yeah I’m awkward as fuck. I’m convinced that I’m socially stunted because of my stutter. When I was 4-8 or 9 my stutter was really bad. I still stutter but not nearly as bad. I only spoke when I absol...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterMay 21, 2020
5 points

While I do agree it’s a lot easier when you don’t have a stutter, it still requires a lot of courage to do something like that. Yes, a stutter makes certain things a lot harder, but it is not always t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2020
1 points

Those feelings and thoughts that make you think that others are better, are the subconscious random thoughts. You just gotta observe them without any comments on thoughts. I would suggest start medita...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingSeeking TherapyHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2020
3 points

I would suggest to seek a SLP ASAP. It gets rough and rougher and he'll get used to of not speaking fluently. I would suggest to not waste time and get him appointments as quick as you could. I had it...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Seeking TherapyHelplessness & AgencyEarly Concern & Onset
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2020
3 points

I feel u. I am frustrated and jealous of other who talk fluently. I feel like I am missing out a lot because of my stutter: my career, my social life.. Stutter is really holding me back from things I ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2020
6 points

The only thing keeping you from achieving things is yourself. You clearly have a very negative outlook on your situation and as a result you are negative about yourself. Accepting your stutter would...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMay 19, 2020
7 points

I feel that extreme shame like I have pretty much my entire life

I feel that extreme shame like I have pretty much my entire life I can't crack jokes and small chats and have that same atmosphere afterwards. Once I stutter it feels like I ruined fucking everything....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2020
3 points

I firmly believe for us we have to always push forward. Never backwards. If you let your stutter call the shots then your never going to win. Unfortunately we have to fall and keep on falling. We don...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencySeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2020
1 points

How I can smile when I lost the girl i love the most and my future and everything cause of stuttering. How the Fuck can i smile ?...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMay 18, 2020
6 points

If i had no stutter i would be a total different person

If i had no stutter i would be a total different person I am stuttering since i was 4 years old.I don't know how to explain it but the stutter started immediately after an "accident" i had.I was with ...

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Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2020
2 points

(Do you feel like you could change the world if you didn't have a stutter) this is a question so deep not world but many things I will have changes but these wounds won't seem to heal this pain is jus...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2020
3 points

Yeah, I've thought about this question a lot. Who would I have been and what could I have achieved if I didn't stutter? For sure it has inhibited me in my social life and I think we all remember some...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2020
4 points

Hello. I feel you 100%. Although I have some friends, I always though I could make so much more friends if I would not stutter. I am looking for Job now and I can tell you is pretty hard. I always thi...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2020
1 points

Hello. I would like to know how you overcome stuttering. My speech is holding me back either, but I am not motivated enough to see therapist because I stutter only when I am under stress (which is hol...

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Helplessness & AgencyAdvice RequestsEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2020
2 points

I know a guy who started stuttering out of the blue at 18. One thing to know is stuttering help is most professionals don't really know anything about stuttering. Your doctor wont know and unfortunate...

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Seeking TherapyAcceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2020
2 points

Hi Everyone, I am a 33 old man and been stuttering ever since I can remember. I am just so tired of stuttering and want it gone, lol leave it in the dust never to return to it. I guess, what I am aski...

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Helplessness & AgencyAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterMay 14, 2020
1 points

Even people who don’t stutter go through situations like this and feel embarrassed/shamed for a misuse of words. Don’t give your stutter that much power....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2020
1 points

I did last year too. I was barely managing during the first two years of my undergrad. Then when the important events came along, such as presentations and interviews, I could barely manage. I could n...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2020
5 points

Dude and I'm 18 same thing with me, they say he forget his name but I really couldn't say that, but important is to bot give a fuck what they think just stay cool is hard but you have to survive with ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMay 12, 2020
6 points

Feeling stuck

Feeling stuck Quarantine got me a lot of time to think and I realized **I am feeling stuck**. I am in mid 20s and I dont have a job, a place to live on my own, also my dreams are very far (from my poi...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more