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postr/StutterJul 22, 2024
12 points

RANT!!!! Feeling inadequate

RANT!!!! Feeling inadequate So I try to not let my stutter get in the way of me living life. I’m very outgoing with lots of friends & I still try to engage in conversation even if I sound like I’m hav...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
2 points

I stutter everyday :) some days are better than others. Some days i can barely get a word out and I just wanna give up on the world. But with constant practice and learning to control how you feel i...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationMindset shiftAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
9 points

Hi, I'm pretty much the same but I'm 28. I'd say I don't have any friends either, let alone a partner. I also try to hide my speech, but it's not always possible. My colleagues at work seem to be ok...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Loneliness & IsolationAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
1 points

Sorry way later, it was 3 big time bosses running the town I live in. One was the mayor, firechief and some.other manager of the town hall or worker there . Damn it sounds crazy when I put it like tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
3 points

Good advice would learn body hacking. Learn how ur body works and what u feel right before u stutter. Most of us can feel it. You gotta stop doing the same things when struggling to get a word out cau...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
5 points

I also struggle from stuttering, unfortunately I do not have too much good advise. However, I suggest you seek speech therapy. It has helped me a lot and I have grown more confident. A good thing to r...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Seeking TherapyAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindfulness & Breathing+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
3 points

I’d knock off the first letter. I did that for years and then acted like the recipient misunderstood and was at fault for not listening. :)...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
3 points

I try to say "my name is_____", and I feel like saying "is" and then my name is an easier transition and I'm less likely to stutter than just saying my name...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
2 points

Believe it or not, but blocks are what happens when we cannot tolerate the mere idea of others hearing their repetitions. Most stutterers report that blocks are more debilitating - no one Willis ask ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
3 points

I also can't say my name 95% of the time. I usually kinda jerk my hand out for a handshake if it's something casual and that kinda helps get it out. If I'm at work I point to my nametag in almost the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
3 points

thankyou for this! i’m due to start a job in a chemistry lab in a couple weeks :) got out of this job asap...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
3 points

Yes, no resistance takes off a huge weight but at the core, the internal blocks triggered by words, sounds, consonants, vowels etc. still have to be resolved. If no work is done on it, things won't ch...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
2 points

So it’s like you stuttered because you ‚trained‘ yourself to stutter. Like in stressful situations. You overcame that with positive affirmations right? How long did it take (I think you said three yea...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
7 points

Same here, first on my university class, but sounded like I had no idea when explaining concepts to people. People just stopped asking me, even though I understood most stuff....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2024
7 points

Yep, the same scenario with me. I was amongst the top 5 of my class but whenever someone asked me something, i always used to take the back seat saying I didn't understand the concept well and felt pr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2024
7 points

I think your statement “what you resist persists” gets at the idea that stuttering is an approach-avoidance conflict. The more you try to resist stuttering the worse it is: for example trying to giv...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2024
14 points

Though I really appreciate you overcoming the stutter but this is not how AMA's are held. I've gone through the comments on this question and you're coming off as arrogant with your replies. If someon...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 20, 2024
12 points

I stutter but quite good academically

I stutter but quite good academically Sometimes I understand things to greater depth but I can't explain them coherently, I use synonymous words or just near relative words to avoid blocks...my point...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Propositionality & WeightAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2024
1 points

Corrections safety officer. The job advertised said security patrol unit for a small town I live in. They told me I'd have to go live in brandon for a paid security guard training program and then L...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2024
4 points

Yeah I hate following scripts. My old boss tried the same with me but I told her I follow her script but I'm gonna say it MY way. Because it's almost impossible to say what someones expecting me to sa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesStress & Fight/Flight+1 more