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postr/StutterMay 2, 2021
13 points

I keep overthinking and it’s driving me mad

I keep overthinking and it’s driving me mad I have found in the last couple of years in particular I have started to overthink about my stutter and everything around it so much. I’m 17 now and I’m at ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterMay 1, 2021
11 points

Do you ever get that awkward moment when someone inadvertently laughs at your stutter?

Do you ever get that awkward moment when someone inadvertently laughs at your stutter? I've had a few meetings at work where I stutter and some people laugh. Usually people who I'm meeting for the fir...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2021
1 points

I'd have to concur, definitely. Just the simple of meeting and interacting with people on a daily basis is stressful enough, and even moreso in a professional setting like work. Socially, it's almo...

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commentr/StutterMay 1, 2021
1 points

It's probably the worst thing about stuttering for me :(...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2021
29 points

Hi, absolutely. The connection b/t stuttering and mental health isn't talked about enough. I read a study about this a couple days ago, and it was very interesting. Basically, people who stutter have ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2021
2 points

That small feeling in your stomach when you stutter, the same I get when I cringe at moments in shows like the Office or when I think about a thing I did wrong 10 years ago Aye you're over it now, yo...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2021
3 points

Yeah, we're the same! And I got to a point where I would feel sick whenever I stuttered on a word and people other than family) noticed. It is hard, but I'm done living with this pressure....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2021
3 points

I'm really sorry that your family is harsh about your stutter. Some people just don't get it. I also had some awful presentations in school - childhood & in college. In high school I had to stop a...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2021
2 points

Where I'm from, stutterer is a lowbrow comedy relief stock character trope, played by people who do not stutter. And my family members are really harsh about my stutter, telling me to stop or people w...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterApr 29, 2021
24 points

I feel so bad..

I feel so bad.. Today on my way out of school, I went to a store to grab something to eat, I noticed that 2 people were talking about a subject that I know alot about and have experience in. All that ...

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commentr/StutterApr 29, 2021
1 points

Stuttering It’s a anxiety issue by meditation n handling humiliating moments with maturity can make things …….....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2021
2 points

I wanted to be a sailor, always have been a dream of mine. So I am now studying a maritime academy and I found out that I stutter so much that it's basically risking peoples life to ever put me in cha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2021
2 points

That’s a good mindset to have, but don’t you feel like inferior and indifferent after you block? Especially after blocking infront of someone you want to impress? I’m trying to learn to accept it beca...

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postr/StutterApr 25, 2021
34 points

i’m so over my stutter..

i’m so over my stutter.. i’ve been stuttering ever since i was born since it’s a genetic thing. my moms dad stutters, my mom stutters, i stutter, and my two siblings does. out of everyone, i have it t...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family FactorsShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterApr 24, 2021
2 points

Does anyone else mainly just struggle with names?

Does anyone else mainly just struggle with names? My stutter is almost unnoticeable most of the time. A lot of the time most people don't believe me when I tell them and 99% of the time the only thing...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2021
4 points

I'm scared this may become me at some point. It feels like every week or so my stutter makes me hate myself even more than before. I'm planning on getting speech therapy soon which I hope helps me tho...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessSeeking Therapy
postr/StutterApr 23, 2021
27 points

My stutter is making me so damn depressed.

My stutter is making me so damn depressed. I'm 16 atm and I've stuttered ever since I was 5. I've never particularly been bullied by it which I find very strange, but I did have good friends who didnt...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2021
1 points

I don’t think that being nervous doesn’t cause a stutter, but it does make it worse though. A lot of people laugh at me when I stutter, I even got bullied, laughed at, mocked at when I was young and ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2021
2 points

Don't be so hard on yourself, please be kinder to yourself. This could happen to any of us in this subreddit. This does not make you useless whatsoever....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 22, 2021
71 points

Why does every day have to be a fight?

Why does every day have to be a fight? Life long stutterer and occasional lurker here trying to vent/rant. While I'm mostly dealing with my stutter pretty well, today it hit me hard. This week I star...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more