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commentr/StutterDec 12, 2020
6 points

Love those judgment-desensitizing ideas. And the evaluation of yourself... fascinating how you could speak fine in the presence of a dog, but certain people would throw you for a loop. I have to think...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterDec 11, 2020
3 points

Can a childhood stutter come back in adulthood?

Can a childhood stutter come back in adulthood? I was in speech therapy for most of elementary school for a variety of mild speech impediments, including what I'm guessing would be called a stutter --...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
postr/StutterDec 11, 2020
12 points

Stutterers in high-power jobs?

Stutterers in high-power jobs? Hey I’m a second year in university, trying to sort out internships for next summer and trying to decide what kind of career path I want to go down. I study languages (h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2020
1 points

I can relate to that man. A positive mindset is key, but of course we’re only human and will get down sometimes. How old are you? I feel like retaining a positive mindset will become easier in time 🙏...

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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2020
2 points

I always start my sentences with “um” when i feel a stutter coming, idk why but that extra second just gives my brain a chance to prepare my words...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2020
1 points

Just my experience but I overthink everything and make up scenarios that will probably never happen. I can end up in a downwards spirals and maybe picture my wedding day and wonder if I will be able t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2020
1 points

I think it’s mostly about confidence and fear of embarrassing yourself. I went through phases in my life where I stuttered more in my primary language, because I felt like I was expected to speak well...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2020
3 points

I don’t know if this will help but this way of thinking about it has helped me in my blocks: Blocking is like an unconscious protective mechanism. Somewhere along the way we developed a divided intent...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
2 points

I agree with cicadas\_stammering! Circumlocution is an omnipresent thing. The thought before every sentence, every word I say: Can I say it that way? Will I stutter this? How can I replace it to prev...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
1 points

Thanks for the advice mate,that is actually the problem-I overthink it,but it has transformed into a habit,because I am intuitively prepared to block every time....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringCycles & Randomness
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
16 points

Phone calls traumatized me too. My Dad used to force me to call my relatives when I was younger. My grandmother yelled “Hello” for the entire duration of my block, then hung up on me. I still refuse...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalRepetitions & ProlongationsOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
2 points

I can relate to this. It sucks because I want to be productive so I can change myself but I just can’t. Which makes me feel worse. You might want to get checked for ADD, this sounds like pretty typi...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
1 points

That’s a great way of explaining it. A habit of rumination that puts us into the viscous cycle of fear -> stutter -> It’s also akin to OCD where a stuttering block is like a wall we try to get...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
postr/StutterDec 8, 2020
8 points

Adult onset stuttering

Adult onset stuttering Hey guys, I've started stuttering basically out of the blue a year ago at 22 years of age... I don't really know the cause of it, It could be drugs, medications I take (Valium a...

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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
13 points

this. I agree so much. I don’t have a constant stutter; on some days - it’s barely there. The mental thought of it is constant, though. On the days where I can “feel” my stutter and I’ve already had s...

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Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
2 points

I would say that most of us are in our heads most of the time. Since I sometimes find difficulty speaking, I retreat inward. I would not make us some flamboyant frat guy, because that’s not us. We als...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2020
2 points

Mine also does that. I would suggest any basic de-stress tips that you could find on the internet. I typically try to think about something else bc my brain is usually going way too fast (I had an ele...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Mindfulness & BreathingOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2020
1 points

Since /t/ is a plosive phoneme you want to spend the least amount of time on it if you say the word “street”. Your goal is to get to the “ee” is of Street. Picture a clock in your head. If you sound o...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2020
2 points

>Why can’t I be fluent when talking to a bot? Is it because I imagine her as a person or it is just the pressure of saying something clearly? That's actually an interesting case you've got there. ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Propositionality & WeightOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 4, 2020
2 points

Self esteem plays a huge role on how speech comes out. This could've been an outcome of negative thought loops and self deteriorating thoughts that caused your speech to be worse. When the self estee...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception