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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2019
1 points

Sounds exactly the same as me. If I’ve had a few beers and completely forget about it I’m fine, soon as I remember I stutter it makes itself known. ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2019
1 points

That’s awesome! It’s not so bad but I notice I have it when I have to plan on saying certain things and more so when my anxiety and stress is at its peak.. not thinking about it helps. Most people don...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2019
2 points

I can empathize with you. I was born a social, extroverted person and my stutter used to be a big reason to why I had a lot of introverted and mute moments. The muteness was definitely debilitating, b...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMar 18, 2019
9 points

How did you guys accept your stutter? (Practice Self-Acceptance)

How did you guys accept your stutter? (Practice Self-Acceptance) I'm a very severe pws, like facial contortion, block on every word bad. I'm also very covert about my speech, I try at all costs to avo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2019
1 points

^ exactly. We condition ourselves to live in our heads and assume that our stutter is going to ruin our life. Of course it's one of the hardest things to deal with, but we fail to realize that other p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2019
3 points

Such a good thought man. I had a interview for graduate school a few months ago. Once it began I could feel the sweat dripping off my fucking head and the speech blocks appearing. Once I became so ner...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2019
5 points

Mate, mind my language, but what the fuck did you expect their reaction to be? For the average person, hearing/seeing a stutterer is translated as extreme nervousness or some mental disorder. They can...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2019
1 points

I don't know man, I was sick and tired of hiding my weaknesses by staying far from public speakings... This time I decided to come out of my comfort zone and see what I'm actually good at. I won't lie...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2019
8 points

Talking about things like you have done is the most important part of acceptanxe. For so long I never spoke about how hard it is to stammer, but youll be surprised how many people have geniune empatht...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2019
2 points

I can never say stutter fluently, never. How ironic I guess. It’s so annoying because I want to say it with confidence but I can’t even say stutter ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2019
3 points

I promise you that you care SO MUCH more about your stutter that most perspective SOs will (especially if they take the initiative to get to know you). Make the issue known early, and you may be surpr...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2019
13 points

It was a very good friend;my friend group knows about my stutter and honestly they never seemed to mind so I never felt conscious stuttering. So things got close with this girl and I asked her out eve...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2019
6 points

I would love to give you an easy way out, but unfortunately there isn't. I'm from Italy [M 23], and i too have a not severe stutter, that i always hide with quick word swaps, pauses and accurately p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2019
2 points

That's good you got help. I've never gotten a speech therapist because 1) I have horrible anxiety 2) I feel like my stutter isn't that bad, it isn't as bad as yours was. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2019
12 points

I have mixed feelings about it, on one hand it’s a relief to not have to struggle to say it, but then at the same time it makes me feel incapable. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2019
1 points

Why do you think that is? Is there a direct link between stuttering and initiating conversations, and why do some people struggle with one more than the other? I personally don't talk about my stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2019
2 points

I think the best way to not give a fuck about what people think is to just own it. You have a stutter, it is what it is. It doesn't define you, it's just something you have. Instead of being afraid of...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2019
1 points

I’m a 21f, I recently started opening up about my stutter. I’ve ignored it my whole life and my family never spoke about it either. I’m pretty much starting from scratch on really accepting my stutter...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2019
1 points

Nice, but changing the words doesn't help you at all. It's just a way of avoiding your stutter instead of facing the fact that you are indeed a stutterer. I had the same problem but I am forcing mysel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2019
1 points

Opening up to family and friends was one of the best things I did for my stutter. Not feeling like you need to hide all the time and feeling shame, it can be liberating and your speech gets better as ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking