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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
1 points

Like alot of people said it comes down to self esteem. Why dont you think you are lovable? would becoming more social, help? would being come confident and capable socially make you feel worthy of lov...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
2 points

True , I’ll do that bro . Ngl out of the whole class I feel like I am the most like good looking guy , I am tryna be humble but like I got a good height 5’11 ish . Good physical body type not too fat ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
4 points

Although I think the reason why OP is having trouble finding a partner is because of confidence and not his stutter I think this is why specifically he targeted at men. GENERALY men are expected to ma...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
3 points

Good luck! I remember when I was trying to go out with my first girlfriend. I was nervous as fuck on the inside, but I was able to keep it cool, and it worked. Just keep your cool, and if it doesn’t w...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
1 points

What would you say to someone who doesn't stutter, who still has low self esteem or lacks confidence? Would you tell that person that their struggles are reflective of a lack of worth? Or would you en...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
13 points

It’s not difficult if you have confidence. I promise you, confidence is the key. You have to act like you have the biggest dick in the room and you’re laying it on the table. There’s no “cheat code”...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
1 points

The professor actually reacted nicely, she did not let the quality of my speech to determine her judgement. I guess she really wanted me to perform because she believed my work was worth it… however s...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
1 points

I know mute people in relationships, its not that much about what you say in reality, more about how you conduct yourself in everydayslife and how you view yourself...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
1 points

Nah, I know you’re holding yourself back but sometimes it might be to your detriment if people could already tell you stutter. There’s this one famous stuttering comedian, and he REALLY has a stutter,...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
1 points

You have to have other things going for you, like being confident or a sense of humor/personality. I know you don’t think it’ll translate well if you stutter but if what you’re saying has enough subst...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
1 points

There are people who literally cannot speak and must rely on hand gestures or text to speech and they find love....

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
1 points

I understand what you’re feeling and the thought process of it all. Yes, we are different. Our brains are wired differently. You have to remember nobody is concerned with you. Everybody is struggling...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
3 points

Dude seriously? The right person is not going to care about your stutter. Life is for living, get out there and show the world that stuttering is cool and not the end of the world. Broken record here,...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
4 points

You are worthy and lovable whether you have a stutter or not. Your value as a person does not change. If it’s causing you significant distress and if you find that it’s a barrier in your life (which I...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
2 points

Got to love yourself first. Cant ask someone to do something you are not willing to do yourself. Easier said than done of course! But most of these thoughts are thoughts that everybody has, stutter...

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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
6 points

People will pick up on whatever you put out there. If you feel you're unlovable, then people will pick up on that. Need to love yourself. Get in the habit of feeling good about yourself, and you'll ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
1 points

This is an absurd question. You are lovable ! Infact, there is a good chance that your stutter makes you even more lovable. Because your stutter have you made to the lovely human being you are today....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
3 points

My older brother has a severe stutter and he is married and just had his first child!! :) He also had multiple girlfriends in high school and college. Self esteem issues are common with people who s...

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Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
2 points

We are our own worst critics. My childhood was devoid of acceptance after I started stuttering. I stopped feeling loved by my parents and have associated stuttering with shame. There are so many be...

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Trauma & PsychologicalVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
1 points

Ive had multiple gfs over the years and they thought it was endearing, it doesnt make you less of a man/lover...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride