commentr/StutterFebruary 26, 2024

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It’s not difficult if you have confidence. I promise you, confidence is the key. You have to act like you have the biggest dick in the room and you’re laying it on the table. There’s no “cheat code” to getting in a relationship, and I’ll admit it is a little bit harder getting into one with a stutter, but the only thing that seems consistent across women is that you need to shower and act confident. Also, don’t be afraid to talk about your stutter, but at the same time make sure you’re mindful of how you’re talking about it. You can make yourself sound more confident if you answer a question they have about it or make a joke about it, but you can just as easily take away the perceived confidence if you’re down on yourself about it. And yes, girls often find it cute, if it’s paired with confidence. Let me say this again because it was the best piece of advice I’ve ever been given. Act like you have the biggest dick in the room and you’re laying it on the table. Look at yourself in the mirror and say that, “I have the biggest dick in the room and I’m laying it on the table.”

Themes

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability

Subthemes

Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride

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