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commentr/StutterJul 23, 2021
3 points

I don’t get stuck in certain specific consonants all the time, but just generally I find that rephrasing things when you can sense a stutter coming on sometimes helps. Or even after it’s onset, just ...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2021
-5 points

mmm bueno, pienso que debes buscar un especialista y que determine el porque de tu tartamudeo, ahora si es que asocias eso con situaciones especificas, pienso que debes evitarlas o sino hablar y decir...

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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2021
1 points

Because it can, so it did... Thats whats stuttering is about, it can do whatever it can and you cannot do much about it, just reconcile with a fact. I would be gratefull that I can still comunicate ev...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
1 points

It definitely takes a toll on one’s mental health.I believe the main reason is living in denial and not accepting it early on....

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
3 points

Hii! I've had a similar outbreak recently. I've noticed during my online presentations that I stutter so much that my teachers think I'm having issues with my connection (yikes) and just take over for...

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Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
postr/StutterJul 21, 2021
6 points

I hate stuttering...

I hate stuttering... I do it when talking to people and its embarrassing i wish I couldn't stutter or could just rip my tongue out I hate it....

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
1 points

I can’t speak for everyone but for me it definitely takes a toll on my mental health. It gets very bad in some instances....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
1 points

I also feel ashamed talking about my stutter... Maybe I'll have to deal with it....

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Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
3 points

This looks like a tough situation. I can't really relate to it. But maybe tell your friends how much it means to you to not stutter when speaking, so that's why you prefer English? Growing up I never ...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
12 points

yep. recently its been taking its toll. its exhausting having a stutter and other speech impediments and often leads to me socially disconnecting myself. and other people's responses to stuttering doe...

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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2021
1 points

Oh my god. I've never had my friends make fun of my stutter but I've had a few say you dont stutter when I apologized a few times and said sorry I stutter. Not the same i know but also kind of aggrava...

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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2021
3 points

I get it. There are days I want to cut my tongue out of my jaw. Days where I, at least in my own home, go mute. The Mrs doesn’t like it much, but I don’t always care. I don’t feel like it’s my place...

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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2021
5 points

Have you ever tried doing the opposite and stutter on purpose? It’s very difficult. From personal experience I can’t do it. 🤔 Stuttering is in fact the art of trying to hide stuttering. Which reall...

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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2021
3 points

my boyfriend has a stutter. we met via a dating app which was helpful because it allowed me to know he had a stutter (he openly had mentioned it on his profile) as opposed to being surprised when we f...

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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2021
9 points

I really feel your pain we have all been through this, maybe yours is worse than mine but i feel your pain of not being able to make an order, because u know u will stutter and look awkward but trust ...

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commentr/StutterJul 20, 2021
1 points

Similar situation, I have done a lot of work by myself to work through my speech issues and can hide it or work around it depending on my emotional state. When I’m relaxing with friends i can usually ...

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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2021
1 points

I used to raise my hand in class all the time. In 3rd grade age 9 we got a new book and teacher would ask if anyone wanted to read aloud. I always did and raised my hand. I remember stumbling through ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2021
1 points

The thing about laughter is it makes us try harder which is just more tension and more pauses. More frustrating. When you become good at hiding your stutter you are always jumping through hoops to con...

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commentr/StutterJul 17, 2021
2 points

You're absolutely right and I couldn't agree more with you! I went to therapy for my stutter and other stuff a few years ago and my therapist told me facing the problem was the best way to overcome it...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2021
2 points

Yup, I've thought about giving up on talking far more times than my fingers can count. I too suffer from clinical depression and I'm extremely self-conscious, so whenever someone makes me self aware o...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
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