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commentr/StutterMar 15, 2022
1 points

as a 16 year old stutterer, i know exactly how you feel. i mask my stutter by simply not talking. i know for a fact it doesnt help AT ALL, in fact its made it worse. for me though, im very comfortable...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMar 15, 2022
14 points

Does anyone try to mask their stutter?

Does anyone try to mask their stutter? I'm 15 and I suffer from stuttering, had trouble with it since I was about 10, I had it when I was 5 but it went away for a couple years and than it came back wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2022
3 points

It’s also possible to be mostly a covert stutterer - meaning you put so much energy into hiding it, most people don’t notice it. Especially after high stress events, you can have less energy to “hide...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2022
2 points

Agree ^^^^ hardly spoke. And they probably already know your name if you are on their schedule/waiting list…so may be just as easy as confirming that’s you when they call your name or say it out loud ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMar 13, 2022
8 points

Help from stutterers

Help from stutterers whenever I talk to people especially new people or cashiers/ restaurant staff and even worse with larger groups of new people even if I’m with someone I’m comfortable with I stutt...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2022
1 points

Hello, I'm 25 years old and I've stuttered since I was a kid, so I have a little bit of experience. Here's an interesting fact: I don't stutter when I'm alone. When I'm talking to myself alone, I'm mo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2022
1 points

I think the metric for measuring severity of stuttering should be “how much does it stop you from saying exactly what you want to say”. Some ppl speak with frequent repetitions. Some people hide the...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2022
1 points

Be brave, but get a job where you don’t have to talk too much in stuttering-inducing situations, especially public speaking. See an SLP with stuttering expertise, not for a cure, but to learn more, de...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPreparation & Rehearsal+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2022
7 points

I am 40 years old, and I did not "come out" openly and proudly about my stutter until I was 37. If I could go back to highschool knowing how much more free life is when you can 'scold' someone for ma...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
6 points

In my case, it's the opposite. I am now able to hide my weird face expressions I make while talking....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2022
1 points

Don't put them in a team meeting. Develop an individual work relationship between yourselves and then work out. A group is much less intimidating when you know everyone in it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentPower Dynamics & IntimidationAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2022
3 points

This is so true. It’s the fear that holds us back, not the stuttering....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2022
3 points

When I was a kid yes. But over time you get used to it. It's annoying but the main thing you have to try and develop is confidence so you don't let it hold you back as much. I speak to clients on a da...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Hope & MotivationHiding & ConcealmentPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2022
21 points

A stutter won't stop you doing what you want - it's *how you feel about it* that can hold you back. I'm a covert stutterer. I spent years avoiding having to talk in case anybody heard me stutter. It...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2022
1 points

You don't need to respond to every comment directed at you. We stutterers have very high sensitivity towards what others say about our speech - So much so that we start obsessing over it. we dont real...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2022
8 points

I learned how to hide it because people stopped listening to me once I stuttered, or would just mimic it. I will gladly accept any other form of making fun of me except the stutter. Recently though I’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentStigma & BullyingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2022
8 points

Sorry but being realistic it isn’t invisible, it limits the way I can express myself, sometimes I virtually can’t talk at all. It gets exhausting....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMar 3, 2022
3 points

Sometimes making fun of others is better than hiding it.

Sometimes making fun of others is better than hiding it. # Please read the full article. **First, I introduce Myself:** I have had Lisp and Stuller issue since a child or you can say from last 20 yea...

Therapy & ProfessionalSpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Therapy ExperiencesPhysical TensionAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2022
2 points

I've done that so much that my vocabulary got so small that I had trouble making a full sentence in my head. It's a very big deal when you need to explain something that's important and not your dail...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2022
1 points

Dopamin antagonists kind of work. Aripiprazole reduced my stuttering. But I stopped the experiment after two weeks, because it killed my motivation to do any thing. There is also a study on Ecopipam i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentHelpful Med OutcomesHarmful Med Outcomes