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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2019
2 points

Say exactly what you want to say, word for word, no avoidance or substitution, and you will eventually hit a block. When you hit that block, admit that you stutter. Double win for you: exact represent...

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postr/StutterJun 23, 2019
12 points

Suttering as an Elephant in the room for me

Suttering as an Elephant in the room for me I am 22 yo stutterer and I my experience lately is different than before. Currently at the university and in the work (I work in corporate company as a Busi...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2019
1 points

I regret not doing it. I've been struggling with mental health issues and I think my stutter is at the heart of them but I've never addressed it directly. I'm a covert stutterer and most people won't ...

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postr/StutterJun 21, 2019
7 points

Social skills

Social skills I’ve been stuttering ever since I can remember with a mild to moderate stutter. As a kid it was rough always the outcast and I think it’s because of my stutter but I’m not sure. It wasn’...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2019
12 points

Same thing happens to me. Then you repeat the line, and people because don't realize it's a joke they're confused for a second until they do a mental switch to "oh, he's making a joke" and the entire ...

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postr/StutterJun 15, 2019
15 points

hey ya'll. who wants to get rid of their stutter together?

hey ya'll. who wants to get rid of their stutter together? Pretty much the title. I am 21 year old recent college graduate. I don't think my stuttering has held me back that much. I have a lot of clo...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2019
2 points

Exactly! You're more than your stutter, and when someone can't see it, it typifies them more than it typifies you....

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2019
1 points

Hi, I just wanna point out that sometimes, often I think, it's kind of mysterious how this kind of dramatic shifts in perspective happens. As you word it "one day I just realized..." So, yeah, *some...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2019
3 points

It took sometime. One day I realized it was something I would have forever so I decided it could be worse. Then I actually started making jokes about it and I started being more open about it. The mor...

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Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2019
4 points

I would keep it because I dont see it in a negative way. Dont get me wrong I have my moments were communication is a nightmare. When i really get stuck on a word i make a stupid face that i hate. But ...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2019
2 points

the internet. As a fellow semi stutterer (I instantly knew what you meant lol) The slow pauses are actually taught in speech therapy and I don't use them for the exact reason you stated, yes they wo...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2019
2 points

Same thing. I'm from Italy [M 23], and i too have a mild stutter, that i always hide with quick word swaps, pauses and accurately placed "uhms". When you stutter for 16 years you start to come up w...

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commentr/StutterJun 10, 2019
2 points

it’s soooo much easier to tell new ppl, i’m about to go away to college and i’m gonna advertise the FUCK out of my stutter and i have a feeling that’s gonna help a lot...

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commentr/StutterJun 10, 2019
2 points

I never thought about my stuttering as “covert stuttering” until you made this post. I always thought of it as being a closet stutterer. Covert stuttering is a more accurate definition of what I’ve be...

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commentr/StutterJun 10, 2019
2 points

That's good to hear. I've been trying to come out to people and I don't know if it's just me but I feel like it's easier to tell someone new rather than telling someone who you've been talking to for ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2019
3 points

same boat tbh. it’s exhausting to try to hide your real voice from everybody. i’ve only opened up to a small number of people but mostly every time i’ve had to tell somebody it’s been a positive exper...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2019
6 points

Damn, this is so relatable. I have a mild to moderate block that tends to heighten in scenarios that make me nervous or second guess my speech (aka taking food to a table and saying the names of said ...

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commentr/StutterJun 10, 2019
1 points

I feel that if I didn't stutter, I would have presented myself differently in school. I would have given presentations and raised my hand to speak more. It always frustrated me that I had so many thou...

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postr/StutterJun 10, 2019
14 points

Covert stuttering.

Covert stuttering. I've been a covert stutterer almost all my life and now that I'm 24 years old I'm having a really hard time coming out as a stutterer because I have been so used to hiding it. It's ...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2019
3 points

Be yourself. If she doesn't like you for who you are, it's not worth it. Also, be confident. If you see she starts getting confused, just tell her you stutter and act like it's no big deal...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride