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postr/StutterOct 9, 2019
12 points

Aladdin movie quote as stuttering metaphor

Aladdin movie quote as stuttering metaphor I watched Aladdin on a flight to NYC. btw, spell check caught me using two L and one D :) Spell check is my magic lantern when writing... mic drop In the ...

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postr/StutterOct 8, 2019
5 points

Do you mention in job interviews that you stutter?

Do you mention in job interviews that you stutter? Hello, just found this subreddit and decided to write a post right away. It's good to be able to talk about this with people that go through the same...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2019
12 points

I connect deeply with what you say here. So many times I have used different words or phrases to avoid stuttering, only to feel a sense of "moral failure" afterwards--why didn't I say exactly what I m...

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postr/StutterOct 8, 2019
45 points

Does anyone feel this way?

Does anyone feel this way? I always feel as though I’m not doing the best at describing my thoughts. The words that I use in particular always feel, after the fact, like I could’ve used better ones. I...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
4 points

>problem with stutteriring is that it cuts the connection between the outer shell and the inside. makes it hard to correctly present your inside most of the time. Completely agree with this. Even ...

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Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
5 points

neither the outer shell nor the inside is solely enough as evolutionary psychology suggests. these are complementary concepts and both need polishing hence our nature. i wouldnt be so naive to think t...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2019
4 points

from my own experience i wouldn’t even use past tense and say that i felt exactly the same, instead i’d use present continuous. something that is honestly starting overwhelm me is that i’ve been goi...

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Authenticity vs. MaskingLoneliness & IsolationOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2019
7 points

I think this applies to every stutterer, if you are an extroverted person deep inside. Im extroverted but have "learned" to be introverted because of my stutter. Confidence is gained through exposing...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 3, 2019
39 points

What has helped me the most over the years

What has helped me the most over the years Hey everybody. I'm a 42yo and have stuttered for as long as I remember. When I was younger it absolutely controlled me and affected my relationships, persona...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2019
1 points

I am not an expert, but I am a stammerer myself. I seems that just like every stammer is different, every individual with a stammer will think of it differently. Oftentimes, when a stammer is retai...

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postr/StutterSep 30, 2019
10 points

How to make fun of my stutter

How to make fun of my stutter For instance what would be a funny way to announce it/ mention it? I want to break the ice (more so to make myself at ease and lessen the pressure), but I have no idea wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHumor & Community ToneAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterSep 27, 2019
43 points

I conquered one big fear today and I now I kinda feel hopeful for the future

I conquered one big fear today and I now I kinda feel hopeful for the future I just want to share that I’ve been stuttering my whole life. I had a stutter when I was in elementary school, then when I ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy+3 more
postr/StutterSep 26, 2019
5 points

I made a throwaway to post this.

I made a throwaway to post this. *this is a draft for a personal statement I was going to submit for uni applications, but I dont think I'll use this one. I dont know why, but I felt compelled to shar...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
postr/StutterSep 22, 2019
16 points

What's been helping me, a different kind of cocktail

What's been helping me, a different kind of cocktail Just graduated from college about a month ago, and I just wanted to drop some insight on what has been helping me with my speech. I currently feel ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Propositionality & WeightMindset shiftHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2019
2 points

Yeah, most of our problems that involve stuttering will make us feel awkward/humiliated/weird...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2019
3 points

I did the program when I was 14 (I’m 18 now). When I was there, the program did help me and I did hear/feel a difference in my speech. But the improved speech went away with time. I’m sure this progra...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Therapy ExperiencesPositive Therapy TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2019
1 points

Oh wow that’s very interesting actually lol I don’t use reddit that much (but I really should) so I’m not always locked into my tendencies here...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2019
1 points

I dont see why not. For my interview, I first disclosed and then proceeded with the interview. Show them your passion and personality, that surpasses the stutter and gets you in the door. Good lu...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2019
2 points

As a fellow stutterer, I always tried to pretend like it didn't bother me when I did stutter and it didn't seem to bother anyone that I was speaking to. If they can see that you're comfortable with yo...

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Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2019
2 points

I truly believe that our stutter is a bigger deal to us than it is to others. Like you I have had several good jobs including 7 years in management. I am currently pursuing a bachelor's degree in nurs...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAuthenticity vs. Masking