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commentr/StutterApr 23, 2022
2 points

Ah ok gotcha. I was misinterpreting what you were saying. One thing I notice with my social circles is that since ppl know me as kinda quiet (but not shy) in groups but talkative in one on ones, th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2022
1 points

Yup! Me too. I used to call them blockages when I was a kid because I never really stuttered on a repeated syllable. Sometimes, but most often not. It wasn't until I finally looked up stuttering on ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesRepetitions & ProlongationsHiding & Concealment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 22, 2022
11 points

I (M~17) am to nervous to go out into public and try to meet new people. (because of my stutter)

I (M~17) am to nervous to go out into public and try to meet new people. (because of my stutter) So just to get to why I’m nervous, I have a speech impediment (stutter) and I’ve had it since I was lit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2022
2 points

It really works for me. It’s a dirty fix and I’ve begun relying on it in social settings. Mainly it just helps you not care about your stutter. Helps a lot if your friends are also drunk and already k...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Helpful Med OutcomesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2022
3 points

Not for me. The only thing that does is not caring. If I could not care all the time, that would be great....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2022
3 points

Shift around to a different word/ phrase that means similar or skip the first letter of the word to get past it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2022
3 points

I thought I was the only stutterer/blocker who found it nearly impossible to say his own name. Here's a funny consequence of this situation: Need to call bank or credit card company for some accoun...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
postr/StutterApr 20, 2022
8 points

How do you mental prepare for a class presentation?

How do you mental prepare for a class presentation? The heart pounding. The sweaty pits. The sweaty forehead. You know you are about to be put on the spot and your stutter will be thrown out for the w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
postr/StutterApr 20, 2022
1 points

Drugs and relationships

Drugs and relationships I’m sure a lot of u can agree with me alcohol and benzos such as Xanax help with stuttering even stimulants do no not do drugs to cope it’s dealing with a smaller problem with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStrategic Swearing/Cursing+2 more
postr/StutterApr 20, 2022
4 points

Please help

Please help My stutter is becoming so bad. I stuttered back when i was in 3rd grade but i cured it and now i’m 15 and it’s been back for a few years. It’s getting si bad to the point where i can’t tal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2022
3 points

Fuck. I dread watching movies with people when there's someone in it that stutters. I always cringe at what their reaction is going to be. Most people that know me won't react but if it's someone new ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 19, 2022
24 points

How do you feel about getting the pity smile?

How do you feel about getting the pity smile? I'm currently in high school. Whenever I talk in my really soft tone and stutter when asking a complex question, I always get the sympathy smile. I can ju...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2022
3 points

This is amusing to me because this happened to me! Truly horrendous experience stuttered for 1 minute straight could see the dad looking mortified stopped the stutter told him I had a stutter and I ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2022
3 points

Had a similar experience. Once I had a substitute teacher and he wanted to know everybody’s names. When it was my turn to introduce myself in class I blocked and just could’t say my name, so my friend...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2022
11 points

>I just keep thinking that they all think I’m some loser or some idiot, when I’m not and I just have a stutter. No one around you is having those thoughts. Just you. We've all felt it. As a stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 18, 2022
31 points

Embarrassed that I stuttered introducing myself to my girlfriend’s family

Embarrassed that I stuttered introducing myself to my girlfriend’s family I’m a 20 year old female in a relationship with my 22 year old girlfriend, who I adore and am very happy with. On Easter she b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2022
1 points

Good for people who want it, but my goal is to make people less aware of stuttering!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2022
4 points

Hi there, I would describe my stammer in those terms also. My stammer is pretty much interiorised or covert. Very real to me, not very visible to the observer. I would have a difficulty with any thera...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2022
2 points

Yep I totally avoid watching anything where someone stutters, esp if there's a few other people in the room, I find my stuttering totally embarrassing and it adds to it,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2022
2 points

I worked at Starbucks with a pretty bad blocking stutter. Working drive thru/cash register gave me a lot of anxiety. After awhile, I stopped overthinking as much bc I was noticing no one gives a shit,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life