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postr/StutterJan 1, 2020
3 points

Observations after becoming an ESL teacher and learning another language.

Observations after becoming an ESL teacher and learning another language. Hey, I've always wanted to share my thoughts on this since I've thought it was interesting. Before college, I wasn't fluent wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 29, 2019
1 points

Same here! I’ll be really worried about stuttering a lot and messing up during a presentation, and then I won’t at all. The weird thing is that I tend to stutter more around people I know, not strange...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2019
6 points

Old guy here looking back over 60 years of stuttering, hopefully with some perspective you may find helpful. One unobvious truth about my stutter is that the less I care about it, the less of a probl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2019
4 points

This is something you have to remember: Even if you stutter, you can achieve a productive and satisfying result. - You should not be afraid of stuttering. You should not be afraid of what people thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2019
2 points

Honestly this is one of the things I've had to struggle the most with. But at the end of the day, they're just people. They won't eat you alive. Confidence will build slowly but, if you atleast try so...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2019
1 points

A 35 pws I know had a Lexus for one day before someone ran a shopping cart into it and made huge dent. He said he unleashed a tirade of profanity with zero stuttering. I do not per se suggest this. W...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Strategic Swearing/CursingRoles & PerformanceAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2019
3 points

Perfect, you'll do just fine then. I would classify myself as exactly that when I was first in college. Like people have said, college is a better environment for us stutterers. People are more accept...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2019
1 points

Everyone puts on a front to some degree. The super confident articulate people are trying really hard to seem that way. Every one has things eating at them to some degree they just aren't as obvious a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2019
2 points

1. The moment when I stutter or when I show visible effort to speak in front of someone is just embarrassing makes me feel helpless and ashamed of who I am 2.No one whom I don't know but I feel that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 28, 2019
2 points

Hey there! I'm also a first year college student and I can relate so much to your post! My stutter comes in mild blocks, but it does go crazy on certain occasions when I'm supposed to speak aloud in f...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterDec 25, 2019
4 points

To what extent stutter define you?

To what extent stutter define you? Ever since I’ve been working on my speech (in one way or another) I was reminded by people that “stutter doesn’t define me” and so on. I could never truly correspond...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterDec 25, 2019
6 points

Talking to another person that stutters

Talking to another person that stutters Is this something that others find weird or interesting? How do you react? I had a co worker in another department that had a bad stutter. Whenever I spoke to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2019
2 points

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it. I've been trying so hard to reinvent myself and get out of my shell because my future relies on me being outgoing and charismatic, I can't be that if I harbo...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2019
2 points

Oh yes I think it should work for me too. For me it's usually with new people that I meet, but with days the stuttering gets minimal if I interact a lot with them....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2019
1 points

I don't forget it, but when speaking without thinking. I tend not to stutter as much...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2019
1 points

Well don't you sound so confident.. I found the idea of confidence and eye contact to be nothing but relevant. Personally, if I'm going to stutter, I'm going to maintain eye contact and portray confid...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2019
1 points

Same boat I swear in a past life I must’ve been an actor because my ability to jump in and out of character(s)/ accents WITH FLUENCY is ridiculous! Look we need some answers science 😅...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2019
1 points

There are exceptions for everything. My main point was try to maintain eye contact while stuttering....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2019
3 points

I can relate to that to a certain extent, as the stutter usually kick in when I’m trying to hold back. On the other side, when I’m acting like there’s nothing holding me back and I’m on the roll of ex...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2019
2 points

Funny you say that. Letting yourself stutter is about letting go of control. The approach avoidance conflict creates a desire to control....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingOverthinking & Monitoring