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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2022
2 points

Very True we didn't get to enjoy our 20s because of Stuttering Enjoying is a very Different Word i would say we didn't get to live life to our fullest potential of what we can become and do. This memo...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2022
8 points

i think those feelings are common, for all kinds of reasons not just stuttering. i’m almost twice as old as you, and experienced that in school, but also more recently in my own professional life. tw...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2022
6 points

I once had a guy come back into the sandwich shop after eating, and give me this huge heartfelt rant. He stuttered alot growing up he and said “you probably prefer to hang out with females cause guys ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2022
2 points

Thanks man. It was excruciatingly awkward initially, but helped me overcome the embarrassment of speaking to strangers. Would definitely recommend it....

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Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2022
1 points

Happy to hear that. I'm healthy too. Money isn't a problem for me. Yes, you can stutter and be "successful." But when I look inwards I just see a bottomless pit of trauma. I regard my own life as esse...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2022
2 points

It's hurts when that's all you see and hear. I get it, I did the exact same thing. But look where your focus is. It's on lack. It's on comparison. It's on reasons you're not good enough. I guara...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2022
2 points

Yeah bro that’s what I’m scared of. I’ll probs end up addicted to them and probs get a seizure or sumn. Man idk what to do. Speech Therapy is useless bro. Going to sh!t rn man fr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentSeeking Therapy+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2022
5 points

damn i could relate to this hard. i'm 19, a year older than you, and my stutter seems to hold me down as well. I don't like participating in my classes at all due to the fear of me stuttering and gett...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

I would say just working on my self-esteem and positive reinforcement from other people. I also went to therapy for a while where I talked about my feelings about stuttering, shame, social anxiety e...

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
1 points

Try not to get down on yourself man. We tend to focus on the negatives and overlook the good parts. People can assume all they want, and that's a reflection on them. What store do you work at btw?...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2022
3 points

Good intentions but bad execution. The logo and the app name could be so much better. Please, whoever is in charge of your team convince them to change it....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
4 points

I have had people laugh at me when I stutter. It hurts bad. At the same time though, I am not mad at people who laugh. No one prepared them to steel their nerves for a severe or ridiculous stutter. I ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
1 points

That’s the absolute worst! I’m sorry you went through that. Maybe it take it as a sign that you shouldn’t go there? If they can’t be professional then why give them your money you know....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
2 points

I know that feeling. Don’t let that drag you down. They humiliated themselves much more with that kind of behavior than you....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
10 points

Yup, this will bomb with that name. I can't tell you the number of times growing up I was ridiculed and made fun of by mimicking my stutter "Ta-ta-ta-taday, junior!" Or something to that effect. It...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2022
10 points

I think it’s be a good idea to do some surveys/ interviews on the name of the app so you can have some data to present the people responsible. I am interested in this app, but the name does feel mocki...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJan 14, 2022
50 points

Got laughed by my stutter...

Got laughed by my stutter... So I want to go to therapy (normal therapy) and I was making a call to make an appointment. Of course as a regular stutterer, I was blocking in words and stuff. When the...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJan 14, 2022
15 points

Went on my first date and now I’m even more stressed.

Went on my first date and now I’m even more stressed. I went on date and it went good. I stuttered in some sentences and she was ok with it. She didn’t make any weird face when i hd some repetitions a...

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postr/StutterJan 13, 2022
11 points

Customer Feeback on my performance at work

Customer Feeback on my performance at work Hi, so I have had a stutter since I was around 10/11 I'm 23 now and thought I was at peace with everything until today. So at my job we wear masks and it's...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2022
1 points

Be real dude, some people find stuttering offputting. Just like how some people find certain traits offputing. It happens....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying