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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2021
5 points

Don’t worry about it. If you get fired it will suck. I’d try to build up your savings while you can and protect yourself by building up savings and reserves if possible. They shouldn’t fire you over...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2021
2 points

When I manage some difficulty, I feel happy and strong, but for a moment i again feel fear for something else. I feel that I'm in horrible circle...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2021
4 points

Thanks for your sharing. I see a lot of my experiences in your story. Looking back elementary and junior high were a relatively happy time in my life but stuttering was a consistent stressor. I rememb...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2021
3 points

Personally, i found weed makes it harder for me to speak. I still vape every now and then but mostly before bed or if I'm home alone. I used to smoke all day everyday but that was the lowest time of m...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Harmful Med OutcomesRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Helplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 10, 2021
38 points

I’ve never been so lonely, but I have no energy to change. In my head, every social interaction is something to be avoided at all costs. Here’s just a little venting and some backstory of my life experiences so far.

I’ve never been so lonely, but I have no energy to change. In my head, every social interaction is something to be avoided at all costs. Here’s just a little venting and some backstory of my life expe...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2021
2 points

Yeah that's one way, and ive thought of doing it that way, , but for me it gets such a issue and I get so worked up I can't help but think bout it all the way to the shops, so I'm in a bit of a st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 9, 2021
30 points

Future?

Future? Hi, I'm near 20 years old now, and its time for choose a college. And here is my problem... I don't know what i want to do. I have few ideas but I don't fitting to these jobs. I don't like muc...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJul 8, 2021
55 points

The Most Mentally Painful Experience

The Most Mentally Painful Experience I know many of my wonderful, strong, stuttering peeps have this exact problem so I'm not worried, but you know what fucking hurts, when saying what's on your mind...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2021
2 points

It can help some. I went enough to get an official diagnosis of moderate to severe clutter stutter and called it good enough. I actually want to get to a place where I feel safe enough I can pull ou...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2021
1 points

Moderate to severe clutter Stutter, bad eye sight and astigmatism, autistic, many many other things. Nothing wrong with being different. I do understand how much of a burden you can feel being so diff...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 7, 2021
57 points

Stuttering makes me feel worthless

Stuttering makes me feel worthless Speaking is an essential part of being a human. Your able to comes to with other people form bonds be close to others make jokes and create relationships. How can I...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2021
2 points

Im sorry for you to hear all that, and I'll gladly listen to you more. But the answer to all of your suffering, can't be to create more suffering, which is what would happen. The proper answer is, t...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
2 points

i will later maybe, i’m too scared of fucking shit up i haven’t been with him in a long time and he has been mad today,idk if he still is. i think we need more time together to be better. the meanes...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
3 points

The hardest truth of having a stutter is that we're the only ones that can fix it. The problems you're describing are internal, not external. Socialization and conversational skills aren't skills that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyMindset shift+1 more
postr/StutterJul 4, 2021
3 points

It’s eating me up how much I’ve missed out on.

It’s eating me up how much I’ve missed out on. I don’t stutter as much, more so cluttering (the words come out faster than my brain can process them) and I’ve realised how much in life I’ve missed out...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterJul 4, 2021
3 points

Why don’t I stutter when I speak in a very low voice, but stutter when I speak in a normal voice or in a loud way?

Why don’t I stutter when I speak in a very low voice, but stutter when I speak in a normal voice or in a loud way? [deleted]...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
2 points

I’m 19 years old is painful living with Stuttering I know that all those years have not been easy, I have join in college this year is not very hard maybe that the direction I am does not require much...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyHope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2021
6 points

This is me too. This is me. Exact at this moment. Its what made me get on my reddit app right now. The name thing hurts. It hurts me soo bad. Im almost in tears typing this. I've lost everything amids...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2021
3 points

Haha, I’ve entirely opted out of trying to get a job at 17 because of stuttering. Plus I’m not great around people in general. Too nervous that I’ll fuck it up. At least you have connections, I know...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2021
24 points

You've got two things going on, my friend. Your stuttering and your mental health. And while they are intertwined, one is a more serious problem. And it's not the stuttering. I always advocate for Sp...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation